Re: Brother just got out of prison -- METH HELP FOR FAMILIES

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Subject: Re: Brother just got out of prison

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Date Posted: 18:44:36 05/02/06 Tue
In reply to: Melinda 's message, "Brother just got out of prison" on 12:49:40 05/02/06 Tue

It is not your fault.

It is ok to tell him what you feel. If he is going to use he is going to use, right? Tell him about January and let him know you think she is using. Let him know you are worried about prison and him going back to his addiction. Tell him you love him and to be careful.

Be aware you may get some strong harsh words back. Especially if he is using again and also the fact that you are an ex-tweaker. I�m sure you will hear �Get off your soap box� �what gives you the right to judge� he may even blame you for his use and how it is your fault. I�m sure you know all those words are just the addict protecting his precious drug. He will blame others and make them feel guilty, push your buttons just so you will get off his back and leave him and his crystal alone. Good Luck.

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