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Subject: Re: help : hello again

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Heather

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Date Posted: 12:39:22 05/18/06 Thu
In reply to: Valerie 's message, "help : hello again" on 11:56:27 05/18/06 Thu

I suggest you find somewhere to go. He doesn't seem to be concerned with you or your little ones by not spending time with you and them and taking money that can be used for your kids and you. Does he really deserve the breath you want to speak to him? NO. And this special friend, long sad story, trust me - your sad story will get longer and sadder if you don't leave. Cut your losses - it's worth it. I had to do it and let me tell you - I am 150% happier than ever. I took complete control over my happiness and it's too bad ol' tweker cannot be a part of it, but it is not my fault nor is it my problem. It used to be because I made it my problem and I let it have a huge affect on me. There is always a way out. There are always options. You need to open your eyes and look for them. But it seems you are sweet and nice and you don't want to crack the floor beneath your feet. I was the same way - but instead now I crack them where they need to be cracked because if they are unstable they will crack without effort. Find stable ground for your kids and you.

This is harsh but it's what you need to hear. Get away fast or you won't have any money to complain about him taking cause it will all be gone. And he won't be around and you will be stuck. Find your way now instead of later. I wish you luck in making your decisions. Words won't change what he's doing and it is up to him to change himself. You can only change the situation for you and your kids. I would suggest just finding your way and doing it. Do not tell him your plans because meth users are manipulaters but also he might decide to get physical and try to keep you from leaving. They love to be in control and right now he thinks he is in control of everything. You take the control. Trust me - he will know why you left without you saying a word. I wish I could walk you through every step I had to take to leave him. Let me know if you would like me to tell you some things you can do for YOU and your self esteem and especially how I learned my worth and learned to LOVE me more than ever. You are worth more than this treatment. Go find it in yourself first and the future will be brighter than you can imagine for you and your little ones.

Your friend-
Heather

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Re: help : hello again	kim	20:50:35 05/18/06 Thu