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Subject: Re: help : hello again

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Shari

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Date Posted: 16:59:19 05/19/06 Fri
In reply to: Valerie 's message, "help : hello again" on 11:56:27 05/18/06 Thu

I hear you, Valerie...loud and clear.

I'm not going to beat around the bush. I'm going to be blunt, and you aren't going to like what you hear.

Yes, I remember you. You had lots and lots of excuses then about why you couldn't leave, and now you still do. I think what it boils down to, is you will keep finding excuses because you don't want to leave. You have it in your head that it will get better. Don't fool yourself!

Meth addiction is a very FAST pace of not only screwing up the addict, but taking down and tearing apart anyone involved with them. By the end of the summer you might be lucky if what he puts you through allows you to still function and do the things in your life you are supposed to do. That is, provided he hasn't gotten to the violent part yet and hurt you or your children.

If you think you have nothing now...wait till you see how little you have by the end of the summer. When the money runs out, things will start missing from your home that he sells for next to nothing to get his drugs. It won't matter how desperately you need the things that are missing. All that will matter is that he needs his drugs.

He will take from you, from the children, from the house...anything he thinks he can get any type of money for.

All DHS offices are pretty much good for nothing at a first glance. I suggest you get your rear down there, talk straight to them...tell them you are living with a meth addict, tell them how close you are to finishing school, and ask them what type of help they recommend.

You are a Mom. Your first concern should be your kids and not the fact that you have to finish school. You are risking the emotional and physical welfare of you and your children by staying. If he is smoking the meth in your home, he is polluting your entire environment. Even if he isn't...I'm sure he's bringing it into the house and hiding it from you. What happens if one of your kids finds it, ingests it...and you lose them?

GET HELP AND GET OUT OF THERE NOW!

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Re: help : hello again	Shari	08:00:21 05/22/06 Mon