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Subject: Re: what do i do now

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Date Posted: 11:01:37 03/30/06 Thu
In reply to: denise 's message, "what do i do now" on 10:47:05 03/30/06 Thu

He caused this problem he has to face the consequences. Only pot and meth on the weekends? Wow seems meth is more important to him than then you? The fact is I hope you have no kids with him and you can make a clean break. RUN and do not look back. You are not alone here and please read the �Helpful Tips� post some great info there. Good Luck.

Some lines from the Helpful Tips. Good Luck:

First of all it is NOT your fault they are using. All the cruel things your loved one might say to you is the addict talking and not your loved one, and meth users are masters of manipulation. Rehab is not a cure it is just a place for the addicts to dust themselves off; it is ultimately up to the addict to stay clean. You have the right to be upset and set your own rules and to live your own life without feeling guilty about their use. Let your loved one know you are there for them to talk to and will help them when they are ready to quit, and do not enable their use. One tip is to learn to stick to your guns. If you kick them out or say you are not going to give them anymore money stick to what you say do not fold after a week or two. Enabling is helping out the addict so they NEVER hit their bottom.

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: what do i do now	Heather	11:46:45 03/30/06 Thu
Re: what do i do now -- denise, 14:41:44 03/30/06 Thu Re: what do i do now -- jerry's ex wife, 21:37:29 03/30/06 Thu Re: what do i do now -- denise, 10:29:28 03/31/06 Fri