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Date Posted: 14:00:19 02/24/05 Thu
Author: ?
Subject: Re: Serious Question
In reply to: ? 's message, "Re: Serious Question" on 12:14:40 02/24/05 Thu

I agree with some of what the last person said. I think the main problem is most likely one of jealousy, which is totally understandable. if you loved this girl then you probably wanted to share everything with her and to experience everything together, and now you have all of these images in your mind of someone else who was a part of her life. it's not your job to forgive her for having had sex before meeting you--I think you need to remember that she wasn't trying to hurt you personally, I assume you weren't even in her life when this happened. she made a mistake which she probably regrets, and I suppose you have to ask yourself if it's worth losing her to satisfy your jealousy. but just know that if you hang on this, and always hang it over her, then you're not doing her or yourself any favors. if you're going to stay with her, then she deserves your complete love because she has come clean with you. just some thoughts.

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