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Subject: in love with a much younger guy Author: sea [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 18:54:23 04/24/03 Thu i am 40 and he is 27. we met online 2 years ago and became good friends. i was still with my husband at the time but we became separated over a year ago. my problem is that i fell in love with this guy. we've only met face-to-face three times. the first time was very innocent, the second time touching, but the third time there was some penetration. he moved hundreds of miles away a month ago and i miss him terrible. he moved to start his business with a few friends and he hasn't been in touch as much as before. i know he's busy with trying to get his house together and get the business set up, but i miss him so much but don't want to seem pushy because i may chase him away. he knows how i feel about him and i don't think he would intentionally hurt me, but i need to know if i should give him space and see what happens or what? i've asked him many times if there was anyone else in his life and if so that was ok, because i would just walk away. he has said over and over that he has no girlfriend, fiance' or wife. he has said to me over and over that he would be here for me no matter what and not to worry. i'm afraid to trust him totally since being deceived and lied to by my husband for many years. but i really love this guy. i've never felt this way about anyone before. i married my husband at 17 and he was 27 at the time and i knew for years i didn't love him especially after all the hurt and pain he caused me. what should i do about this younger guy. should i just walk away from him or what? please help me.....please! [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: in love with a much younger guy Author: Dr. Lisa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:04:47 04/25/03 Fri First of all, I don't know what you could possibly have in common with a 27 year old man. Secondly, at age 27, I am sure he is looking for a woman to marry him and have children with him. Are you, at age 40, willing/able to do this? I think that it might be fun to date or hang around this guy, but I wouldn't expect anything serious to come out of it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]