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Date Posted: Mon, 01/ 6/03 10:05pm
Author: OlHump (Aka OlUgly)
Subject: Re: Sinatihawk & OlHump
In reply to: tash"ana 's message, "Sinatihawk & OlHump" on Mon, 01/ 6/03 9:47pm

>
>I am truly sorry that things did not work out for you.
>I know you must both be disappointed. It's hard when
>your heart and pride are hurt.
>
>I have enjoyed reading the messages that both of you
>posted on indianz. I am hoping that you will allow us
>to enjoy both of you and not ask or expect people to
>take sides.
>
>Sinatihawk, you're a smart and perceptive lady and I
>have learned a lot from how you see things.
>
>OlHump, you were very kind to that lost Cherokee
>Princess, it was good to see.
>
>Since I like you both, and would like to be able to
>read both of your posts here, and feel free to respond
>to whoever I wish, I am going to ask....
>
>Please don't throw rocks at each other while
>responding to other people's posts.
>
>I'm not saying this to one of you, I am saying it to
>both.
>
>You remind me of my parents. They would not let us
>love them both, we had to choose which one we sided
>with. It felt bad.
>
>I know that you are both upset and that it is natural
>to be frustrated and hurt and angry and to want the
>other person to feel what you feel.
>
>But what you are both doing feels bad to me. I want to
>look at your posts and see what you have to say about
>different things here because I like you both, but
>then the post turns into a trap where you are sniping
>at each other. Imagine how it feels to those who are
>reading the post, to see you both suddenly turn dark
>inside. I feel bad for you, and I also feel upset at
>having to see the arguing. Had enough of that around
>me to last forever.
>
>And both of you think the other has started it. But
>you are both participating.
>
>Last thing I will say on it: I'm not happy to make
>this post. I figure what will happen is you will both
>be mad at me. I hope you can patch things up. You
>were a nice pair. If not, then I hope that you will
>each have the self-respect to admit that the reason
>you chose the other person is that there were good
>things about them. Even if you decided that the bad
>outweighed the good, please honor the choice that you
>made and own up to it without trying to paint the
>other person the bitter one.
>
>Okay, I'm done -- go ahead and both hate me -- at
>least it will give you a new focus for all that
>brooding and boiling anger. And me, I'll get to be a
>martyr. Whoooo-eeee. What could be better than
>that, hey?

Siyo Sis Tash'ana,
Your words are true and I for one am saddened by the turn in Sinati,Yes I am at a loss. I try to carry on and go forward as I have done many times. This is why I don't aire our differences here, that is why we have Email is it not. Yes I try to post with wisdom and it may end in bites I am sorry for this if it is so. I will refrain from reply's with negativity from Sinati from here on.
Yes Sis I am glad you have brought this up and will do what I can on my part to change Thank You all and sorry if I offended anyone here. OlUgly

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Re: Sinatihawk & OlHump -- tash"ana, Mon, 01/ 6/03 10:57pm