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Date Posted: Wed, 01/ 1/03 1:04pm
Author: Sinati'hawk
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Re: To you women here, over 40!
In reply to: chahta_ndn_girl0 's message, "To you women here, over 40!" on Tue, 12/31/02 9:45am

>Need some experience from my "older" women friends!
>With out freakin the boys out here too much, will try
>to make this as gentile (SP?) as possible.
>
>I think I am slowly approaching that time in my life
>of "crone-ness" if you follow my drift here...
>
>Besides all the typical stuff you hear about like hot
>flashes,(boy do I have those!!!) etc., did you find
>yourselves being less tolerant of people, things,
>situations? Opinions seem to come flying out of my
>mouth like daggers!! I dont seem to have the patience
>and tolerance I used to have. When I see, hear, feel
>someone doing something wrong... and not just to ME
>but it could be to ANYONE... I am right there ready to
>do battle!!
>
>I was never like that before... I have always been a
>person to listen, give the situation some time to soak
>in, then figure out what is the best way to handle it.
>Well... for the most part... (wink)
>
>Is this typical, or am I just becoming a mean old lady
>with a head full of gray hairs popping in more and
>more each day??
>
>People have always referred to me as "such a nice
>girl", almost to the extent of being a doormat, ya
>know, the person that never says no to anything anyone
>needed. Not any more!! I almost feel possessed!!!

Well lady....I started the hot fash thing at 26 cause I was forced into a hysterectomy at 25.....So....I can't help you there...hehehe...it does get better! I agree with you that our tolerence to certain things change as we get older. I pray I have the patience for my grand-kids when its time to be blessed with them..{which my daughter says Mom don't rush me...college comes first!...Thank goodness!}
I also think that the times have changed so much that we are all lucky we have control over our imotions!....So do as I do lady....a day at a time!.....You have friends here to help you through lady!....{{{Hugs}}}....^*^Sinati'hawk

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