12-11-2002 (part 2) -- What's On Ians' Mind.

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Subject: 12-11-2002 (part 2)

Author:
Ian Line

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Date Posted: 22:17:15 12/11/02 Wed

I want to disconnect myself from everyone but at the same time I don't cause I like to hang out with all of you. But you don't seem to want to try to understand each other. You say you "just don't like people and thats how it is". I think thats a lame excuse to not want to try and keep something that was good. This practice will lead you down a path of doing that with everything. From how some of you talk it seems your already heading down that path. You guys are all hurting inside, but some won't admit it. You want to stay "cool and be on top of things".

Sunday after church I say we all should put down our defense against each other and go out for lunch and talk about things. Don't hold back anything you want to say but don't be loud about anything. I don't see any good reasons for us not to be getting along. I think they are all empty reasons. No one has given me any solid information of why they don't like someone. Everyone thinks they aren't liked and that person feels the same. It's a mad cycle that won't stop until people are broken in and come together and straighten things out.

Someone must start to open up and share what's on their mind other than me. Cause im not the one with the problem with everyone. Im trying to figure out if this stupid childish thing (what it seems so far) has a reason to it other than, "I don't like that person". If it's cause you don't want to deal with going through a hard time and figure things out in your daily growth in life with each other this is truely a childish and stupid thing to be doing to each other.

The one good reason for me to seperate myself from all of you is so i don't get sucked into your stupid mess that you guys don't care to look at and figure out. I don't want to not like anyone, it's not like me. I can't not like someone for a petty reason. I can hardly do that with a good reason. I may dislike someone but i don't say crap behind their backs and start doing bad stuff to them. I don't even ignore them. Unless it's a situation to where if I give them attention they will touch me in ways I don't like it, like jaron and zack. Then thats a good reason to ignore people. But I don't talk crap about them behind their backs. Im not a jerk that will do that stuff. I do have to say you guys are making yourselves look like jerks doing this. Another good reason to figure this mess out.

I always have more to say on this, so i'll leave it at this until I get feedback.

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: 12-11-2002 (part 2)	Lisa	10:59:37 12/12/02 Thu


Re: 12-11-2002 (part 2)	Erin	17:30:51 12/13/02 Fri