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Re: Should I break up with my boyfriend?

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georgie

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Date Posted: 21:44:37 03/16/06 Thu
In reply to: Sarah 's message, "Should I break up with my boyfriend?" on 17:25:29 08/23/04 Mon

>My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months now.
>The last three have been long distance...and any
>future time together will be at a distance. I have
>graduated and he still has a year and a half left. I
>love spending time with him. I don't want to break up
>with him...but I feel like I should. We can't go a
>week about fighting over something stupid. We joke
>all of the time and I think that we sometimes go too
>far. He would always ask me if I loved him...I
>finally broke down one day when he was drunk and asked
>me. I said, yes. That I did love him. He said he
>loved me too..however, that was when he was drunk.
>Ever since then he has been acting werid. We had a
>huge blowout because I feel so embaressed. Like he
>forced me to say it before I was ready. I'm
>embaressed because he doesn't feel the same way. I
>feel like he set me up in a way. Like he wanted to
>hear me say that I loved him. He said that it was
>just his way of joking...that he didn't know that I
>was going to say that I did in fact love him. He had
>apologized profusely...but I still feel like crap
>knowing that he doesn't feel the same way about me.
>He also said he doesn't want a serious
>relationship..that he wants things to stay the same.
>But..in my head...I feel like we are pretty serious.
>Not marriage serious or anything. But I love
>him...and it's driving me crazy! He calls three times
>a day. We comes up to visit...a five hour trip. He's
>sending me mixed signals. Should I break up with him
>just because he doesn't love me back? Help! i dont think you should brake up if you love him and he loves you then i wouldnt brake up with him .i love my boyfriend but he dosent love me so i wouldnt do it if you really belive deep in your heart u love him and he loves you dont do it i for one know you will regret it later in life .

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Re: Should I break up with my boyfriend?	Jessica	15:39:43 04/13/06 Thu