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Subject: Should I break up with my boyfriend?


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Sarah
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Date Posted: 17:25:29 08/23/04 Mon
 My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months now. The last three have been long distance...and any future time together will be at a distance. I have graduated and he still has a year and a half left. I love spending time with him. I don't want to break up with him...but I feel like I should. We can't go a week about fighting over something stupid. We joke all of the time and I think that we sometimes go too far. He would always ask me if I loved him...I finally broke down one day when he was drunk and asked me. I said, yes. That I did love him. He said he loved me too..however, that was when he was drunk. Ever since then he has been acting werid. We had a huge blowout because I feel so embaressed. Like he forced me to say it before I was ready. I'm embaressed because he doesn't feel the same way. I feel like he set me up in a way. Like he wanted to hear me say that I loved him. He said that it was just his way of joking...that he didn't know that I was going to say that I did in fact love him. He had apologized profusely...but I still feel like crap knowing that he doesn't feel the same way about me. He also said he doesn't want a serious relationship..that he wants things to stay the same. But..in my head...I feel like we are pretty serious. Not marriage serious or anything. But I love him...and it's driving me crazy! He calls three times a day. We comes up to visit...a five hour trip. He's sending me mixed signals. Should I break up with him just because he doesn't love me back? Help!
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