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Subject: Re: 真個是非難分?

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獨眼龍

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Date Posted: 09:31:25 05/01/03 Thu
In reply to: 公仔佬 's message, "我的看法" on 01:29:31 05/01/03 Thu

首先多謝公sir的氣度,沒有怪我亂把龔老先生的詩句配上新義給他講笑.Summer兄,相信你也是個有氣量的人,我們不如多謝公sir重出江湖給我們指點吧.
公sir用語似甚客觀,好處是不以個人見解去否定別人的,但可惜在最重要的問題上多以問句表達,恕直言,這種策略性的提問不一定能引導同學得出合理的答案,就以我為例吧,公sir問
"如果醫生的職責（我不敢說天職，因為驚比阿進步鬧。唉！）救死扶傷的話，他們有沒有權選擇病人？"
無論我答有權選擇或沒有權選擇,都不妥當,
若說有權選擇病人,我便背上只顧賺錢不理人死活的罪名;
若說沒有權選擇病人的話,我仍感到迷惑,因為,我會想到其他類似的情況:一位私家專科醫生向病人收市場診金5至6百元,事實上他是以價格機制去選擇服務對象,他有錯嗎?一位任教band5學校的教師選擇轉去另一band1校任教,他有錯嗎?一間受津貼學校按自訂的標準選擇取錄兩三成學生,這有錯嗎?.....
明明是一個重大的是非問題,但答是或非都不妥,為什麼呢?
請公sir與各位高人包括進步兄賜教.

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困難並不止此

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公仔佬
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Date Posted: 12:54:42 05/01/03 Thu

龍兄：

一個人在作出選擇時，最少受到三項條件的影響，分別是知識、情感和意志。
你常說的分辨對錯，是學理的問題，屬知識的層面。
你能分辨對錯，但不一定會對的便做，錯的便不做，那多半是情感牽累。
明知是大錯，決心改過，但不久又故態復萌，那便屬意志的範疇。

同學間罵戰的源頭，堂主已指出過，是意氣之爭多於真理的明辨，即是自己以為是在尋真，其實只是在鬥氣；這便是知、情之間的矛盾。

因此，指引學生「分辨」是非已是相當困難；要求學生「心悅誠服」地遵仁由義那是更難；再要求學生「終生堅持」遵仁由義，那是難上加難。

你試用「如何纔可以成功教導學生不講粗口」為題，思考一下我上述的說話吧。
古人說：「十年樹木，百年樹人。」是不無道理的。

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Author: Summer [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 23:31:13 05/01/03 Thu Yes Dollman, 十年樹木，百年樹人, let's always ask questions and leave them for the next generation to think. That's the safest way for us. I will try to learn this from you to make myself a more popular man here. Thank you.