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Subject: Re: 致獨眼龍及Summer二君

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一位家長

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Date Posted: 22:20:08 04/27/03 Sun
In reply to: 公仔佬 's message, "致獨眼龍及Summer二君" on 00:12:15 04/27/03 Sun

公仔佬, 請釋疑, 我確實是一位家長, 我很同意您的說法, 其實每個人對不同事物的都會有和應該有自己的一套睇法, 尤其應鼓勵如我兒(或Summer,又或獨眼龍)的年青人去獨立思考, 而公仔佬和我等一眾比較年長的則應從旁指引, 我覺得公仔佬一直能在九濟堂做到這點。

我提議您不要再回應Summer, 因為我覺得他態度有問題(連對別人應有的尊重都沒有, 如其他的聖方濟學生都是這樣的話, 作為家長, 我很失望, 幸好我在這裡和其他地方看到很多其他態度很好的例子), 亦無空間去聆聽和接受其他人的意見, 大有"順我者昌, 逆我者亡"之勢, 我纔真覺得他像一個dictator呢!與其和他無休止的廝混, 不若大家不作回應, 讓他在沒有對手的情況下收手吧! (雖然他可能會認為大家理虧和詞窮, 由他吧!)

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Re: I totally agree to the parent's comment

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Ms J Tsang
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Date Posted: 23:16:55 04/27/03 Sun

I totally agree to what the parent has commented and I do believe the status of the writer. In fact, I've telling Kung Chai Lo not to bother so much about Summer if he is so "stubborn" (Please excuse me for using such word.) and always refuses to see things from different perspectives. But Kung insists that this is one of the channels to inform (if not to use the word "educate" or "teach" as some of you may think it's too strong) students that while observing freedom of speech, we should also learn to accept different opinions as we accept different social and cultural values. I appreciate his effort in achieving and fulfilling his vision and mission in education. However, I share the parent's view that it is sensible to stay away from the scene for a while to let things cool down first.
I also appreciate Summer's effort in posting his message in English. Not many students would insist doing this. However, as a second language learner, Summer may find it difficult in expressing his ideas in the right choice of words, let alone in the right tone. He may have irritated other people without realising himself merely due to his proficiency in the target language. Therefore, I would suggest (Please note that I have used the word "suggest", not "advise". Can you see the milder tone here? That's what I mean by the right choice of words or tone.) Summer to read more English books or newspapers and to pay attention to better writers' choice of lexical items and expressions. Gradually, you may know how to express your ideas or reasons in the right register so that other people will understand exactly what you want to say without arousing unnecessary unpleasant feelings (Please note that I did not use the word "anger" or "quarrel" here. Can you see the difference?)
I wish I could offer help to Summer in brushing up his English because I do appreciate his choice of the language. But meanwhile, I think it is wise of him to spare more time on preparing for his public examination.
Please remember the essence of "We agree to disagree."
Good luck! Good health! God bless you!