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Date Posted: 04:46:54 07/11/08 Fri
Subject: I can't understand casting aspersions on any fan because you don't like what they like.
In reply to:
's message, "John vs Todd" on 03:39:18 07/11/08 Fri
You like John/Blair. That's fine. That's what you like. I happen to be a Todd/Blair fan who doesn't want Todd/Blair together right now. I think they need a long break and I have no idea what would make me believe they can be together again.
But being a Todd/Blair fan doesn't mean I'm not a Blair fan any more than being a John/Blair fan does, or being a Spencer/Blair fan for that matter. Yeah, people liked Spencer/Blair and still loved Blair.
Like what you like, but if we're all Blair fans what the hell does it MATTER who we like her paired with?! Why do we need to give off the indication that if you still like Todd/Blair then you don't REALLY care about Blair.
I don't give a crap about 'wanting what Blair wants' or, for that matter, what Kassie wants because I didn't sign a stinking contract to blindly go along with the character or actress in all things. I have my own mind. Kassie is not me so it's a given that I'm not going to agree with her on everything. Blair is a soap character, which means that Blair is going to do idiotic things and say idiotic things and make all kinds of bad choices... generally, that's the fun of it.
I've always loved Todd/Blair BECAUSE they're so messed up. If I wanted to watch a healthy, honest, totally functional relationship... I sure as hell wouldn't be watching a soap opera!
I don't like John. I don't like John with Blair. I don't like John at all. That doesn't mean I hate Blair. I means I don't like this pairing of hers. There's no Blair Fan Law against that and it's really irritating to see 'As a Blair fan, I cannot support Todd/Blair because he's so mean.'
Well, as a Blair fan, I CAN support a Todd/Blair pairing because I LIKE THEM. That's all there is to it. Even if I don't see it happening for them now or for a good chunk of time, it doesn't mean that I'm not a Blair fan.
Personally, I think Blair needs to be alone and be reinvented because she really has very little stated purpose these days except to play a supporting role. Maybe, as a Blair fan, I'd like to see her character revitalized so she didn't have to be attached to a man to make people care.
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Re: I can't understand casting aspersions on any fan because you don't like what they like. -- Cammie, 04:51:17 07/11/08 Fri
That wasn't my intention and I'm sorry if you took it that way.I just want Blair to be with a man who treats her with respect and I just don't think that man is Todd.Again if what I posted offended anyone I apologize.
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