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Date Posted: 03:26:43 05/19/08 Mon
Author: tonya
Subject: My thoughts..
In reply to: OTWB 's message, "How should Starr be "punished" for having unprotected sex with Coal?" on 17:02:53 05/18/08 Sun

I would love for Blair to sit down with Starr and in a loving no attacking way talk to her about how this will really change her life, but also letting her know she will be there for her every step of the way With every decision Starr makes from this point on.. it won't be about her, but about her child. While her fiends are out on Friday night she will be home playing Mom.. maybe with Cole, but that is not how it usually happens in real life or in soaps. While her friends are out spending the night and shopping for ring tones she will be home changing diapers. I hope she realizes she should have waited but she is pregnant now. That will not change unless she loses the baby. There is no need for put downs and punishment. I hope when the baby is born that Starr, Blair, Cole, and Todd all look at this as a blessing not a horrible mistake.

Liz, Andrea is in college now and making amazing grades! We still talk about that trip sometimes and wonder how Heather is. Andrea turned out to be such an amazing person and I have always talked very openly to her about sex and getting an education before she starts a family. The only way to not get pregnant is to NOT HAVE SEX. We were tested through her teen years but through it all we talked it through and Andrea made the right decisions.

If she were to end up pregnant, now or if she had as a teen.. I would have been very sad.. for her loss of the freedom to be a care free... for the hardshiops it would most likely made. But when they are pregnant it is too late to do the talking or to punish them. You just have to show them and the baby unconditional love. I hope that is what Blair does...

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[> [> Those two OWNED cute, that weekend. -- OTWB, 13:26:05 05/19/08 Mon

I'm so happy for Andrea and I know you're proud. She's a cutie and so sweet. I think Heather's done with school, for now... LOL a few credits short of graduation, but she's working two jobs one good, one for fun money and living on her own. I'm proud, she's still marching to her own drummer and from what I saw when I was home last September, she's making very good decisions. I couldn't ask for more. I think she'll go back to school she was just burnt on it. Two jobs to live on her own and pay for full time school=no life. I think she had too much going on and she's not giving up the bucks and she refuses to take them from me or her dad. She's a ver independent young lady.

I saw the potential in both of them that weekend, nice to know they're still on the right road. I guess we all did good.


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