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Subject: =) Author: Mei Qi / Jodan [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 08:48:29 02/12/04 Thu Hmmm.. whoa.. hmm.. I agree with what all of U said… Huiji.. I understand how U feel… well.. its true that there is something in this clique that is very valuable. It’s true that some in the group are especially close to each other .. or probably some in the group are not as close to each other.. or even at many times we have a lot of complaints of each other.. but what are our friendship for? Everyone embracing each other’s faults n silliness n everything after everytime we make a fuss out of it, isn’t it? =) And well.. the closeness and the special relationship we all share.. is not by the frequency we meet or talk.. it’s the kinda comfy n secure feelings we can all still find in each other even we’ve not met or spoken for ages. Like what Jianliang said.. we can have a silent conversation.. n that could be the best conversation we have. And honestly that’s how I always feel with our yps gang.. I could just feel so comfy even with all of us silent… No doubt at certain times, someone might not have the time to join in activities or even speak in the forum.. it doesn’t mean distance is growing or concern is lesser.. he or she could still be watching everyone’s life n praying for everyone silently. All of us grow up.. some already started working.. the rest of us gonna start working soon.. Ji getting married.. some of you attached.. some of you will get attached one day.. there’s gonna be constantly changes in each of our lives.. everyone has their own lives to cope.. but up till today, we should have the faith in each other that no matter how little time we gonna have for one another.. we all still have a special place in each other’s heart. Okies.. I’m writing real long.. I know last yr.. that incident of mine sparked off some unhappiness.. I have to say.. some things I can’t manage well.. but I thank everyone for their concern always despite my always “machiam going to die” behaviour then. I guess I was abit over the limit and took it for granted that with the comfy feeling I always find in this group.. I could just behave my mood all the time.. but I guess maybe not. =) I know some of u are not happy with how I deal with my life. I know the “IRC gers issue” had been lingering for many years.. n that it provides some of u juicy stories of my life so often [no more new stories sorry =) ].. or it probably just get some of u totally sick of them. I know some of U think it’s a desperate act of me to go IRC. It’s kinda upsetting to know your friends think this way of u.. well.. I just gotta say.. please do not assume if u were never in my shoes.. IRC channels for straights n the channel for a small community of lesbians could be very different. Years ago, when I got attached to my ex, I know some of you thought that it was out of desperation.. Again.. it’s hurting that my very close friends think this way. Anyway, I just hope that U all don’t assume things when u do not know the entire story or were never in my shoes. Anyway thanks a million zillion…..for all your listening ears when I had “stories” to repeat n repeat. =) Cheers to our friendship! =) [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]