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Date Posted: 07:32:34 08/14/03 Thu
Author: Mike Rehani
Subject: Re: Help!?!
In reply to: Yellow 's message, "Help!?!" on 23:26:57 08/13/03 Wed

Stay away from them and let them figure out their own problems. They sound like they are both weak-minded and they don't sound like good people. They should also give up on each other and quit acting like twelve year olds.

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[> [> !?! -- Yellow, 10:02:05 08/14/03 Thu

Wow...maybe posting wasn't a good idea. I don't get it. You say to just walk away, to ignore them, to disown them. let them work it out completely on their own. You said it yourself, they are weak-minded, how can they do it all by themselves? Sure they need to figure some stuff out just the two of them, but if they are both set in their ways, how can they even begin to change. i am sorry if you didn't get the point that i am REALLY good friends with them and i have been taught not to just run away from friendships when the times get tough. I guess thats been my problem, not knowing if i am in the conflict too much...knowing too much that is.

Just because they are having relationship problems and confusion in their lives doesn't make them bad people either and who is to judge if they are anyways. Just because they are going through some problems doesn't make them evil...more or less not "good". If that was the case i would be one of the worst people around.

I'm not sure about the giving up on each other. That could be what they should do, but right now the only thing they really need to do is figure out what they want in the relationship, more importantly life. I won't give up on them because they did share something special and part of me thinks its their, i just don't want to see them fight anymore, we all used to be great friends. I am sorry that we don't see eye to eye and maybe that was my fault. Asking ya'll when you don't know who they are and who i am for that matter, my mistake.


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[> [> [> Re: !?! -- Mike Rehani, 11:29:45 08/14/03 Thu

Well, you said yourself that you were sick of being used by them. You said you're being pushed around by them. What's the point of letting that continue?
If they are both set in their ways, as you say, why even try to change things? Perhaps they should just ignore each other and stop bickering. They have to take that first step. Otherwise, nothing will get accomplished.
Human behavior is very odd.


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