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Date Posted: 22:49:38 08/14/03 Thu
Author: Yellow
Subject: Re: Help!?!
In reply to: Tim Koch 's message, "Re: Help!?!" on 21:43:51 08/14/03 Thu

You make good sense, and while your comments were very comical, yet good, i still feel like i am the bearer of bad news to each of them. I claim that i don't want any part in the fight, and i am just realizing that i am lying to myself. I desperately want to see them work it out. Not saying that they should be together or that they shouldn't. I don't want to be on either sides, but at the same time i want to be there for them. Maybe hearing that i need to back away is what i need right now. Sometimes i feel like i am trying to be God, making things alright at any expense. I wish i could take your advice and just step out of the scene...but something is holding me there.

Truly, you want to know what i think. You said that since it seems they are ignoring me, maybe they want to work it out on their own...i don't know if they want to work it out. Oddly enough, i think they both still have feelings for each other, but they won't give in to either one. They figure that arguing is easier than realizing that they either do or they either don't like each other. I don't know if that makes sense or not, but yeah. I had a bad time at work tonight...they had a fight and i work with the girl...she cried to me, made me feel like crap and basically put herself down (and i agree the whole death threats and putting herself down is definetly what gives women in general a bad name ). I want to back away, but i just feel evil abandoning her. and him for that matter. he is always talking to me about how he hates whats going on...but he won't do anythign about it. Its starting to be an annoyance rather than something i want to spend time thinking about.

I feel like i am going on about nothing...i never really express myself all that well in words...and usually end up writing stupid stuff. i am thankful that you are sharing, and would have loved to have you go on forever but work calls...and sleep is a heck of a lot more important. Speaking of which, i need sleep.

Tschau

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