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Date Posted: 19:40:04 08/16/21 Mon
Author: mother and she fled Wisconsin. Click in for posted message
Subject: Thanks for your message here. Had not heard the news--that she lost her
In reply to: Fan 's message, "Head west girl" on 16:55:06 08/13/21 Fri




From her posted comments on Facebook, she wrote about her mother's passing:
http://www.facebook.com/gabriella.deyi/posts/10158529299441447


August 6, 2021
Journal entry #218: I lost my mom 1 week and four days ago (July 26, 2021). Five days before I was supposed to move to California and get to see her again and repair all that has been fractured between us. Five days before being able to try to have the relationship I always wanted with her.

Things don’t feel real and at the same time, things feel as real as they are going to get. It’s a troubling feeling to know that the person who gave life to you has no life left. You also feel the guilt of knowing that there is life you still have to live that they will never see or experience with you; no matter how imperfect the relationship you had with your parent was.

I didn’t even know how to put things into words until I saw these words. They helped me at my core. Taking things hour by hour has been a lesson I have never learned until now. And trusting God’s plan right now has been difficult. But faith isn’t faith until it’s been tested.
I am reminded every second that life is short, love is complicated and simple at the same time, but faith is unending and forever infinite.

I am searching for love and light in this time--wherever it is, understanding that healing is a lifetime journey from here on out, coping with not being able to say goodbye, and knowing that there are questions I will never have the answers to. I am taking it one day at a time and hoping that anyone experiencing the loss of anything right now, especially of this magnitude, is doing the same.

I hope you are finally resting Mom...I hope you are at peace...and I hope we meet again in a much more beautiful place. As confusing as it is being here right now...thank you for giving me life❤️






















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