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Date Posted: 21:37:35 04/08/03 Tue
Author: ginger
Subject: I say call them....
In reply to: fiwee 's message, "WHY does everything have to be so hard??? Major hugs needed (m)" on 18:06:54 04/08/03 Tue

and I can say that only because I wont call anyone here LOL

but.. I say call someone that has offered.. see if they can come over maybe tomorrow just for about 2 hours.. and you take a nap while they watch kids.

a nap will do wonders for you! i think. not like i know for sure, but i think it would help me out so im guessing it would help you too LOL

as for the mil.. well, I understand your wanting to have dh all to yourself.. and I understand her wanting to see him too.. its a tough call.. but I think I would just have to stop and think like your friend mentioned.. first, if you were in her situation, youd want to go too.. second, if anything was to happen to him, would you feel guilty that you didnt let her see him before he left? (now, I KNOW he will be ok, but I also know that both of us have to be realistic about where are dhs are at/headed) and also... i would be thinking that I wouldnt want to do anything to make her remotely mad or upset since she may be a lifeline you can use to help with kids and stuff while dh is gone...if you make her mad, will she still be willing to help you out if you need it, or will she hold a grudge?

I guess I was lucky in that my mil lives in Germany so I didnt have to deal with that.. but dh did get to see her on a layover there.

Also, if she goes with you, then maybe she can take the kids to a park or something and you can dh can have some alone time together.

Im sorry to hear about Tricare.. I dont remember any deductible with regular, but Im on Prime I think.. I dont know, I cant keep up with it all LOL I just know I have dh take care of all that when we first get to a new base or have a new baby or whatever.. so I dont have to deal with it.. LOL but, I do know how frustrating it can all be when things go wrong with it.. I have a bill keep coming in from when Trace was born that was paid and we still dont have it settled and they are threatening to take me to court or something.. beats me but I wish dh was here to deal with it. bleh.

I got your email.. will try to get a reply in to you tonight.. I sit here and think i need to answer letters and such but then i end up just sort of staring at the screen and then abby has to eat or something and i get sidetracked.. sighhhh

I do hope your van doesnt need any major repairs..

sooo... im sorry i have no good advice... but HUGS to you...

and do call someone to come help out! you have them there, willing to help, use them!

Ginger

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  • Sending you some HUGS too. (NT) -- arglass, 13:19:56 04/09/03 Wed
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