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Subject: Re: PARENTS: IF YOU LOVE YOUR KIDS, YOU WILL DISCIPLINE THEM!


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Ralph
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Date Posted: 04:21:27 04/25/03 Fri
In reply to: Vera Carp 's message, "PARENTS: IF YOU LOVE YOUR KIDS, YOU WILL DISCIPLINE THEM!" on 13:32:59 04/19/03 Sat

Obviously you have never read the Sears Book:
"Discipline Without Shouting or Spanking: Practical Solutions to the Most Common Preschool Behavior Problems"

YOU CAN HANDLE YOUR CHILD'S BEHAVIOR PROBLEMS WITHOUT SHOUTING OR SPANKING
Discipline Without Shouting or Spanking offers effective, practical, nonviolent options for correcting the most common behavior problems of preschoolers. You will learn how to deal with misbehavior including temper tantrums, whining, negativity, sibling rivalry, possessiveness, aggressive behavior, resisting bedtime, playing with food, and many more problems -- without shouting or spanking.

The authors' advice will help you be a more effective parent and discipline your child in a loving yet firm way, without damaging self-esteem or natural curiosity about the world. This easy-to-use text has been formatted like a first-aid manual for handling misbehavior.

Though discipline is necessary and required, it does not have to include violence. A more effective method that I found works is to hold the child in my arms firmly, so they can not move around a lot. We call this Time In. The child is used to moving around, being free, and it is a great punishment for them when that is tempoarily taken away with a Time In.
I have been the parent who spanks, and I have found the Time In method much more effective.

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