Subject:  Re: Lets face it!!! |
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Kim
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Date Posted: 07:20:18 03/07/01 Wed
In reply to:
Marc
's message, "Re: Lets face it!!!" on 06:54:23 03/07/01 Wed
Marc,
good point, I myself am pretty small...I mean...if I didn't know you, and you walked up to me and spoke, I'd probably pee myself. You are a big guy, and the leather, and bike...big men just scare me. But I got to know you on the boards before we met, and you are a pussy cat. All the other big hairy, leather wearing, bike riding (giggle) men I met that day were also pussy cats. You guys have a heart of gold...your not big bad SOB's ripping through the town, your all a bunch of pussy cats. However, even knowing that, I still cringe when a big man walks in my direction, but I know if I were to get to know some of them I wouldn't feel that way.
Now on to these kids killing people. I don't think SOME of the parents are to blame. One of the sets of parents from Columbine (the killers folks) They are just good people, they taught him right from wrong, even one of the girls parents (who this kid killed) said his folks were gold. I know things happen behind closed doors sometimes, but in some cases (not all) I think it really is the kid who needs all the blame. We are so fast to blame, but we hardly ever blame the guilty party. We always look for someone else to place blame on, they had a bad upbringing, they used drugs, they were abused....so what, I was abused when I was a child, raped, beat by father, and 2 husbands...my life was total shit, guess what...I didn't kill anyone. (although I could write a book on 101 ways to kill an ex without being caught) If I were to kill someone, they would pull all this stuff up from my past, things I try really hard not to think about anymore, and say that's the reason. I say bullshit. People with good upbringings do the same crimes. It's time to stop blaming good people for what thier stupid kids do. It would be wrong to say that good people don't turn bad, and that good people(what most would consider good anyway) don't kill, cause it's just not true. To say that only negleted kids act out is wrong aswell. My mom is a good mom, the best, but she didn't know what I was doing when I was out with my friends, she couldn't watch me 24-7, she trusted me, and in the Lord that everything would turn out ok. And that's just what those other folks did, they try their best to be good folks, but we all know what it's like to be a teen, you can hide damn near anything from your folks. Good at home, bully at school, picks on kids all the time, then the "good" kid who is being picked on snaps. Did his folks see it comming, hell no..he's the "good" one. Was this kid taught right from wrong, damn right...he's the "good" one...should his parents suffer...HELL NO!
Just my 2 cents.
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