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Subject: 真的好灰?

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前浪

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Date Posted: 18:05:54 12/09/03 Tue
In reply to: 好灰的人 's message, "好灰, 真的好灰" on 15:12:11 12/09/03 Tue

死, 解決唔到問題。只會茢引發更多問題。
在下認為自殺是最為可恥。
我為羅文,林振強之死而惋惜,
亦為張x榮之死感到逾快!(看出兩者之分別?)
死有輕於鴻毛, 重於泰山。輕生只會受萬人恥笑。
我亦不跟你講你父母親友會傷心等行話。
我相信你也不至於去幹傻事, 不過我要跟你說, 現在的境, 不如意的人大有人在,並不只你一個。你說你老細只愛擦鞋的人, 你便去擦鞋吧! 我不是要你違背自己, 而是適應環境, 靜待機會反身還來得實際。
我始終深信英雄做時勢

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Re:中國人的走後門,拉關係文化無處不在

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手非長
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Date Posted: 18:34:48 12/09/03 Tue

中國人的走後門,拉關係文化根本處處也有.唔講第二處,濟記都有同學可以因為懂拍老師馬屁.可以於社際比賽什至作文考試中順利過關啦.就算升中六,潮州式的"自己人"文化在絕大部份教會名校也年年如是. 公平根本就只是理想,而非事實.
許冠傑都有得唱: 邊有半斤八兩咁理想.
查實出來做野,很多時發覺基層的升職者不少也是食飯時懂得在上司身邊跟出跟入之輩.他們的工作表現未必好,但拉關係倒一流.不過上一層的則多要講實力.
從另一方面想,自己是否應檢討自己的人際關係呢.
有人提起法國外籍兵團,據知法國外籍兵團是不許法國藉人士參加,因為按規定法國人在兵團是當軍官的.而外藉人士即使表現優異絕大部份也只可做士兵.
機會???考慮工作能力???