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Date Posted: 01:37:20 04/13/03 Sun
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Subject: 點解我會咁強調「針唔拮到肉唔知痛」呢
In reply to: 民 's message, "「針唔拮到肉唔知痛」實在說得十分準確...(內文)" on 02:17:08 04/09/03 Wed

點解我會咁強調「針唔拮到肉唔知痛」呢
係因為我自己都經歷過一個十分depress的時間
雖然不是抑鬱症,但都depress得好勁
當時總覺得許多事都沒有出路,
會經強逼自己不停洗手洗面,又或會不停咁食許多野,又失眠
也曾有過想跳下去的感覺,只不過一剎那覺得就這樣死了的話
就十分可惜,當然結果我仍「健在」啦。

這些感覺不是有過這種經歷的人我想不會明白,「同理心」是用不著的。在當下,當事人就是覺得沒出路嘛,就算其他人講一億次「問題是可以解決」,也是完全meaningless的,

現在問題解決了,也就會明白到「問題是可以解決的」了。因此怪責人看不開是因為他封閉自己,本身就顯示了怪責者根本不明白當事人的心境,更惶論「同理心」。要別人「頓悟」,不是外力的多寡可以決定。

因此我十分同意家樑所說,身邊人可能就是未來的張國榮,因此我們必須更關心身的人,不論他們是否表現出有事,因為關心別人本來就是我們身為基督徒的責任嘛。

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