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Subject: A plate of toast

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Anj

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Date Posted: 05/17/05 10:40:56am Tue
In reply to: Neener 's message, "!!" on 05/17/05 5:15:56am Tue

Anger never solves anything.

That doesn't mean smile and get kicked around and walked on.

It means look at your options and take the one that is best for you, not the one you beleive you have some moral obligation to take. You have no obligation there, he broke his end of the deal by going out and doing something like that. To top it off he let your finances get drained before doing so.

Look things over and carefully decide which is in YOUR best interest. If moving in with him is it, he might just have to cover you for awhile until your resources can recover, and boundries would be a beautifully neccessary thing to set up before you even put a suitcase in the apartment.

If not moving in with him, due to a new sense of tension or what not, then you need to look at ways to survive. They are always there, sometimes they just aren't comfortable at first.

There is always an opportunity for compromise as well. Moving in with him until you can find a different friend to shack up with may be an option, giving both he and you time to find another roommate before either one ends up financially drowned out.

Keep your options open, John John, don't limit yourself to ass kicking and screaming. Always look for 3 solutions, even if one of them really sucks. At least then you know why you wouldn't want to go that way and how to avoid it.

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