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Subject: Rape is about power, not sex Author: XOX [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 10:29:36 04/06/05 Wed In reply to: XOX 's message, "½âªª®v«D§´¼»Ù®z¤k" on 13:35:34 03/24/05 Thu This is a response to a Church going Christian heterosexual man who confused rape and sexual temptation. ********************************************** This is a misconception that rape or sexual abuse is about sex. It is not. If men wanted sex, there are a lot of way to 'fall into temptation' and have sex without sexually and physically abused a woman who is not willing to participate in sex. The Lutheran pastor preyed on mentally challenged woman who attended his church because he was drawn to the "power over women". An adult woman would have kicked him in the 'nuts' and prevented him to have 'further temptation'. It is sickening to have heterosexal Christian men who exist rapist behavior and confused it with desire to have sex. Any man, including church going pastor, could have sinned by having marital affair, it is bad, but at less it is consent sex. Any man, including church going pastor, could have hired a prositute, it is bad, but at less it is consent sex. There is no excuse for a church going heterosexual man to sexually abuse church going women in church. I don't know why there are still church going Christian men who failed to get that simple fact. ************************************ ¦^À³¤å³¹: regulations save the staff n member ¦^À³ªÌ: ²»¤å¡@ As I am a man, I realize the power of sex. As I have been a staff in the church, I realize how dangerous a staff is. Regulations and system are needed in church in order to protect church members as well as all the staff. Pastor is good but is not strong enough before sex temptation sometimes. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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Subject Author Date Re: Rape is about power, not sex ¥H§Q¹F 10:46:27 04/06/05 Wed