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Date Posted: 16:24:37 09/04/05 Sun
Author: Anonymous
Subject: This is a great post & very true. I have been cyber stalked, & she carried it over to slanderous activity via phone and email. She visits these boards often. Maybe this will touch her heart.
In reply to: 's message, "Copied from 197462 This is a great board. These people who bash others are insecure themselves. Great post!" on 16:02:36 09/04/05 Sun

>>The serial bully:
>>
>>1.) is a convincing, practiced liar and when called to
>>account, will make up anything spontaneously to fit
>>their needs at that moment
>>
>>2.) excels at deception and should never be
>>underestimated in their capacity to deceive
>>
>>3.) is often described as smooth, slippery, slimy,
>>ingratiating, fawning, toadying, obsequious,
>>sycophantic
>>relies on mimicry, repetition and regurgitation to
>>convince others that he or she is a "normal" human
>>being.
>>
>>4.) is unusually skilled in being able to anticipate
>>what people want to hear and then saying it plausibly
>>
>>5.) cannot be trusted.
>>
>>6.) is emotionally retarded with an arrested level of
>>emotional development.
>>
>>7.) is emotionally immature and emotionally
>>untrustworthy
>>exhibits unusual and inappropriate attitudes to sexual
>>matters, sexual behaviour and bodily functions;
>>underneath the charming exterior there are often
>>suspicions or hints of sex discrimination and sexual
>>harassment, perhaps also sexual dysfunction, sexual
>>inadequacy, sexual perversion, sexual violence or
>>sexual abuse.
>>
>>8.) in a relationship, is incapable of initiating or
>>sustaining intimacy.
>>
>>9.) holds deep prejudices (eg against the opposite
>>gender, people of a different sexual orientation,
>>other cultures and religious beliefs, foreigners, etc
>>- prejudiced people are unvaryingly unimaginative) but
>>goes to great lengths to keep this prejudicial aspect
>>of their personality secret.
>>
>>10.) is a control freak and has a compulsive need to
>>control everyone and everything you say, do, think and
>>believe; for example, will launch an immediate
>>personal attack attempting to restrict what you are
>>permitted to say.
>>
>>11.) serial bullies despise anyone who enables others
>>to see through their deception and their mask of
>>sanity
>>displays a compulsive need to criticise whilst
>>simultaneously refusing to value, praise and
>>acknowledge others, their achievements, or their
>>existence.
>>
>>12.) refuses to be specific and never gives a straight
>>answer.
>>
>>13.) undermines and destroys anyone who the bully
>>perceives to be an adversary, a potential threat, or
>>who can see through the bully's mask.
>>
>>14.) is adept at creating conflict between those who
>>would otherwise collate incriminating information
>>about them
>>
>>15.) may pursue a vindictive vendetta against anyone
>>who dares to hold them accountable, perhaps using
>>others' resources and contemptuous of the damage
>>caused to other people and organizations in pursuance
>>of the vendetta
>>
>>16.) is also quick to belittle, undermine, denigrate
>>and discredit anyone who calls, attempts to call, or
>>might call the bully to account
>>
>>17.) gains gratification from denying people what they
>>are entitled to
>>
>>18.) is highly manipulative, especially of people's
>>perceptions and emotions (eg guilt)
>>
>>19.) poisons peoples' minds by manipulating their
>>perceptions
>>
>>20.) when called upon to share or address the needs
>>and concerns of others, responds with impatience,
>>irritability and aggression
>>
>>21.) the bully sees nothing wrong with their behavior
>>and chooses to remain oblivious to the discrepancy
>>between how they like to be seen and how they are seen
>>by others
>>
>>22.) is mean-spirited, officious, and often
>>unbelievably petty
>>
>>23.) is mean, stingy, and financially untrustworthy
>>
>>24.) is greedy, selfish, a parasite and an emotional
>>vampire
>>
>>25.) is always a taker and never a giver
>>
>>26.) is convinced of their superiority and has an
>>overbearing belief in their qualities of leadership
>>but cannot distinguish between leadership (maturity,
>>decisiveness, assertiveness, co-operation, trust,
>>integrity) and bullying (immaturity, impulsiveness,
>>aggression, manipulation, distrust, deceitfulness)
>>
>>27.) often fraudulently claims qualifications,
>>experience, titles, entitlements or affiliations which
>>are ambiguous, misleading, or bogus
>>
>>28.) often misses the semantic meaning of language,
>>misinterprets what is said, sometimes wrongly thinking
>>that comments of a satirical, ironic or general
>>negative nature apply to him or herself
>>
>>29.) knows the words but not the song
>>
>>30.) is constantly imposing on others a false reality
>>made up of distortion and fabrication
>>
>>31.) sometimes displays a seemingly limitless demonic
>>energy especially when engaged in attention-seeking
>>activities or evasion of accountability.

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[> [> [> I love #6. Too True. -- Anonymous, 17:00:22 09/04/05 Sun [1]

>>>The serial bully:
>>>
>>>1.) is a convincing, practiced liar and when called
>to
>>>account, will make up anything spontaneously to fit
>>>their needs at that moment
>>>
>>>2.) excels at deception and should never be
>>>underestimated in their capacity to deceive
>>>
>>>3.) is often described as smooth, slippery, slimy,
>>>ingratiating, fawning, toadying, obsequious,
>>>sycophantic
>>>relies on mimicry, repetition and regurgitation to
>>>convince others that he or she is a "normal" human
>>>being.
>>>
>>>4.) is unusually skilled in being able to anticipate
>>>what people want to hear and then saying it
>plausibly
>>>
>>>5.) cannot be trusted.
>>>
>>>6.) is emotionally retarded with an arrested level of
>>>emotional development.
>>>
>>>7.) is emotionally immature and emotionally
>>>untrustworthy
>>>exhibits unusual and inappropriate attitudes to
>sexual
>>>matters, sexual behaviour and bodily functions;
>>>underneath the charming exterior there are often
>>>suspicions or hints of sex discrimination and sexual
>>>harassment, perhaps also sexual dysfunction, sexual
>>>inadequacy, sexual perversion, sexual violence or
>>>sexual abuse.
>>>
>>>8.) in a relationship, is incapable of initiating or
>>>sustaining intimacy.
>>>
>>>9.) holds deep prejudices (eg against the opposite
>>>gender, people of a different sexual orientation,
>>>other cultures and religious beliefs, foreigners, etc
>>>- prejudiced people are unvaryingly unimaginative)
>but
>>>goes to great lengths to keep this prejudicial aspect
>>>of their personality secret.
>>>
>>>10.) is a control freak and has a compulsive need to
>>>control everyone and everything you say, do, think
>and
>>>believe; for example, will launch an immediate
>>>personal attack attempting to restrict what you are
>>>permitted to say.
>>>
>>>11.) serial bullies despise anyone who enables others
>>>to see through their deception and their mask of
>>>sanity
>>>displays a compulsive need to criticise whilst
>>>simultaneously refusing to value, praise and
>>>acknowledge others, their achievements, or their
>>>existence.
>>>
>>>12.) refuses to be specific and never gives a
>straight
>>>answer.
>>>
>>>13.) undermines and destroys anyone who the bully
>>>perceives to be an adversary, a potential threat, or
>>>who can see through the bully's mask.
>>>
>>>14.) is adept at creating conflict between those who
>>>would otherwise collate incriminating information
>>>about them
>>>
>>>15.) may pursue a vindictive vendetta against anyone
>>>who dares to hold them accountable, perhaps using
>>>others' resources and contemptuous of the damage
>>>caused to other people and organizations in pursuance
>>>of the vendetta
>>>
>>>16.) is also quick to belittle, undermine, denigrate
>>>and discredit anyone who calls, attempts to call, or
>>>might call the bully to account
>>>
>>>17.) gains gratification from denying people what
>they
>>>are entitled to
>>>
>>>18.) is highly manipulative, especially of people's
>>>perceptions and emotions (eg guilt)
>>>
>>>19.) poisons peoples' minds by manipulating their
>>>perceptions
>>>
>>>20.) when called upon to share or address the needs
>>>and concerns of others, responds with impatience,
>>>irritability and aggression
>>>
>>>21.) the bully sees nothing wrong with their behavior
>>>and chooses to remain oblivious to the discrepancy
>>>between how they like to be seen and how they are
>seen
>>>by others
>>>
>>>22.) is mean-spirited, officious, and often
>>>unbelievably petty
>>>
>>>23.) is mean, stingy, and financially untrustworthy
>>>
>>>24.) is greedy, selfish, a parasite and an emotional
>>>vampire
>>>
>>>25.) is always a taker and never a giver
>>>
>>>26.) is convinced of their superiority and has an
>>>overbearing belief in their qualities of leadership
>>>but cannot distinguish between leadership (maturity,
>>>decisiveness, assertiveness, co-operation, trust,
>>>integrity) and bullying (immaturity, impulsiveness,
>>>aggression, manipulation, distrust, deceitfulness)
>>>
>>>27.) often fraudulently claims qualifications,
>>>experience, titles, entitlements or affiliations
>which
>>>are ambiguous, misleading, or bogus
>>>
>>>28.) often misses the semantic meaning of language,
>>>misinterprets what is said, sometimes wrongly
>thinking
>>>that comments of a satirical, ironic or general
>>>negative nature apply to him or herself
>>>
>>>29.) knows the words but not the song
>>>
>>>30.) is constantly imposing on others a false reality
>>>made up of distortion and fabrication
>>>
>>>31.) sometimes displays a seemingly limitless demonic
>>>energy especially when engaged in attention-seeking
>>>activities or evasion of accountability.

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[> [> [> [> I love #1 and #6. Just so you know though, the board this was copied from was created for a trap. -- Anonymous, 17:16:41 09/04/05 Sun [1]

>>>>The serial bully:
>>>>
>>>>1.) is a convincing, practiced liar and when called
>>to
>>>>account, will make up anything spontaneously to fit
>>>>their needs at that moment
>>>>
>>>>2.) excels at deception and should never be
>>>>underestimated in their capacity to deceive
>>>>
>>>>3.) is often described as smooth, slippery, slimy,
>>>>ingratiating, fawning, toadying, obsequious,
>>>>sycophantic
>>>>relies on mimicry, repetition and regurgitation to
>>>>convince others that he or she is a "normal" human
>>>>being.
>>>>
>>>>4.) is unusually skilled in being able to anticipate
>>>>what people want to hear and then saying it
>>plausibly
>>>>
>>>>5.) cannot be trusted.
>>>>
>>>>6.) is emotionally retarded with an arrested level
>of
>>>>emotional development.
>>>>
>>>>7.) is emotionally immature and emotionally
>>>>untrustworthy
>>>>exhibits unusual and inappropriate attitudes to
>>sexual
>>>>matters, sexual behaviour and bodily functions;
>>>>underneath the charming exterior there are often
>>>>suspicions or hints of sex discrimination and sexual
>>>>harassment, perhaps also sexual dysfunction, sexual
>>>>inadequacy, sexual perversion, sexual violence or
>>>>sexual abuse.
>>>>
>>>>8.) in a relationship, is incapable of initiating or
>>>>sustaining intimacy.
>>>>
>>>>9.) holds deep prejudices (eg against the opposite
>>>>gender, people of a different sexual orientation,
>>>>other cultures and religious beliefs, foreigners,
>etc
>>>>- prejudiced people are unvaryingly unimaginative)
>>but
>>>>goes to great lengths to keep this prejudicial
>aspect
>>>>of their personality secret.
>>>>
>>>>10.) is a control freak and has a compulsive need to
>>>>control everyone and everything you say, do, think
>>and
>>>>believe; for example, will launch an immediate
>>>>personal attack attempting to restrict what you are
>>>>permitted to say.
>>>>
>>>>11.) serial bullies despise anyone who enables
>others
>>>>to see through their deception and their mask of
>>>>sanity
>>>>displays a compulsive need to criticise whilst
>>>>simultaneously refusing to value, praise and
>>>>acknowledge others, their achievements, or their
>>>>existence.
>>>>
>>>>12.) refuses to be specific and never gives a
>>straight
>>>>answer.
>>>>
>>>>13.) undermines and destroys anyone who the bully
>>>>perceives to be an adversary, a potential threat, or
>>>>who can see through the bully's mask.
>>>>
>>>>14.) is adept at creating conflict between those who
>>>>would otherwise collate incriminating information
>>>>about them
>>>>
>>>>15.) may pursue a vindictive vendetta against anyone
>>>>who dares to hold them accountable, perhaps using
>>>>others' resources and contemptuous of the damage
>>>>caused to other people and organizations in
>pursuance
>>>>of the vendetta
>>>>
>>>>16.) is also quick to belittle, undermine, denigrate
>>>>and discredit anyone who calls, attempts to call, or
>>>>might call the bully to account
>>>>
>>>>17.) gains gratification from denying people what
>>they
>>>>are entitled to
>>>>
>>>>18.) is highly manipulative, especially of people's
>>>>perceptions and emotions (eg guilt)
>>>>
>>>>19.) poisons peoples' minds by manipulating their
>>>>perceptions
>>>>
>>>>20.) when called upon to share or address the needs
>>>>and concerns of others, responds with impatience,
>>>>irritability and aggression
>>>>
>>>>21.) the bully sees nothing wrong with their
>behavior
>>>>and chooses to remain oblivious to the discrepancy
>>>>between how they like to be seen and how they are
>>seen
>>>>by others
>>>>
>>>>22.) is mean-spirited, officious, and often
>>>>unbelievably petty
>>>>
>>>>23.) is mean, stingy, and financially untrustworthy
>>>>
>>>>24.) is greedy, selfish, a parasite and an emotional
>>>>vampire
>>>>
>>>>25.) is always a taker and never a giver
>>>>
>>>>26.) is convinced of their superiority and has an
>>>>overbearing belief in their qualities of leadership
>>>>but cannot distinguish between leadership (maturity,
>>>>decisiveness, assertiveness, co-operation, trust,
>>>>integrity) and bullying (immaturity, impulsiveness,
>>>>aggression, manipulation, distrust, deceitfulness)
>>>>
>>>>27.) often fraudulently claims qualifications,
>>>>experience, titles, entitlements or affiliations
>>which
>>>>are ambiguous, misleading, or bogus
>>>>
>>>>28.) often misses the semantic meaning of language,
>>>>misinterprets what is said, sometimes wrongly
>>thinking
>>>>that comments of a satirical, ironic or general
>>>>negative nature apply to him or herself
>>>>
>>>>29.) knows the words but not the song
>>>>
>>>>30.) is constantly imposing on others a false
>reality
>>>>made up of distortion and fabrication
>>>>
>>>>31.) sometimes displays a seemingly limitless
>demonic
>>>>energy especially when engaged in attention-seeking
>>>>activities or evasion of accountability.

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[> [> [> [> [> I could care less if its a trap. It helped me to realize tonight that I need to consult a lawyer about the person who has been harrassing me online. -- Anonymous, 23:02:26 09/04/05 Sun [1]

>>>>>The serial bully:
>>>>>
>>>>>1.) is a convincing, practiced liar and when called
>>>to
>>>>>account, will make up anything spontaneously to fit
>>>>>their needs at that moment
>>>>>
>>>>>2.) excels at deception and should never be
>>>>>underestimated in their capacity to deceive
>>>>>
>>>>>3.) is often described as smooth, slippery, slimy,
>>>>>ingratiating, fawning, toadying, obsequious,
>>>>>sycophantic
>>>>>relies on mimicry, repetition and regurgitation to
>>>>>convince others that he or she is a "normal" human
>>>>>being.
>>>>>
>>>>>4.) is unusually skilled in being able to
>anticipate
>>>>>what people want to hear and then saying it
>>>plausibly
>>>>>
>>>>>5.) cannot be trusted.
>>>>>
>>>>>6.) is emotionally retarded with an arrested level
>>of
>>>>>emotional development.
>>>>>
>>>>>7.) is emotionally immature and emotionally
>>>>>untrustworthy
>>>>>exhibits unusual and inappropriate attitudes to
>>>sexual
>>>>>matters, sexual behaviour and bodily functions;
>>>>>underneath the charming exterior there are often
>>>>>suspicions or hints of sex discrimination and
>sexual
>>>>>harassment, perhaps also sexual dysfunction, sexual
>>>>>inadequacy, sexual perversion, sexual violence or
>>>>>sexual abuse.
>>>>>
>>>>>8.) in a relationship, is incapable of initiating
>or
>>>>>sustaining intimacy.
>>>>>
>>>>>9.) holds deep prejudices (eg against the opposite
>>>>>gender, people of a different sexual orientation,
>>>>>other cultures and religious beliefs, foreigners,
>>etc
>>>>>- prejudiced people are unvaryingly unimaginative)
>>>but
>>>>>goes to great lengths to keep this prejudicial
>>aspect
>>>>>of their personality secret.
>>>>>
>>>>>10.) is a control freak and has a compulsive need
>to
>>>>>control everyone and everything you say, do, think
>>>and
>>>>>believe; for example, will launch an immediate
>>>>>personal attack attempting to restrict what you are
>>>>>permitted to say.
>>>>>
>>>>>11.) serial bullies despise anyone who enables
>>others
>>>>>to see through their deception and their mask of
>>>>>sanity
>>>>>displays a compulsive need to criticise whilst
>>>>>simultaneously refusing to value, praise and
>>>>>acknowledge others, their achievements, or their
>>>>>existence.
>>>>>
>>>>>12.) refuses to be specific and never gives a
>>>straight
>>>>>answer.
>>>>>
>>>>>13.) undermines and destroys anyone who the bully
>>>>>perceives to be an adversary, a potential threat,
>or
>>>>>who can see through the bully's mask.
>>>>>
>>>>>14.) is adept at creating conflict between those
>who
>>>>>would otherwise collate incriminating information
>>>>>about them
>>>>>
>>>>>15.) may pursue a vindictive vendetta against
>anyone
>>>>>who dares to hold them accountable, perhaps using
>>>>>others' resources and contemptuous of the damage
>>>>>caused to other people and organizations in
>>pursuance
>>>>>of the vendetta
>>>>>
>>>>>16.) is also quick to belittle, undermine,
>denigrate
>>>>>and discredit anyone who calls, attempts to call,
>or
>>>>>might call the bully to account
>>>>>
>>>>>17.) gains gratification from denying people what
>>>they
>>>>>are entitled to
>>>>>
>>>>>18.) is highly manipulative, especially of people's
>>>>>perceptions and emotions (eg guilt)
>>>>>
>>>>>19.) poisons peoples' minds by manipulating their
>>>>>perceptions
>>>>>
>>>>>20.) when called upon to share or address the needs
>>>>>and concerns of others, responds with impatience,
>>>>>irritability and aggression
>>>>>
>>>>>21.) the bully sees nothing wrong with their
>>behavior
>>>>>and chooses to remain oblivious to the discrepancy
>>>>>between how they like to be seen and how they are
>>>seen
>>>>>by others
>>>>>
>>>>>22.) is mean-spirited, officious, and often
>>>>>unbelievably petty
>>>>>
>>>>>23.) is mean, stingy, and financially
>untrustworthy
>>>>>
>>>>>24.) is greedy, selfish, a parasite and an
>emotional
>>>>>vampire
>>>>>
>>>>>25.) is always a taker and never a giver
>>>>>
>>>>>26.) is convinced of their superiority and has an
>>>>>overbearing belief in their qualities of leadership
>>>>>but cannot distinguish between leadership
>(maturity,
>>>>>decisiveness, assertiveness, co-operation, trust,
>>>>>integrity) and bullying (immaturity, impulsiveness,
>>>>>aggression, manipulation, distrust, deceitfulness)
>>>>>
>>>>>27.) often fraudulently claims qualifications,
>>>>>experience, titles, entitlements or affiliations
>>>which
>>>>>are ambiguous, misleading, or bogus
>>>>>
>>>>>28.) often misses the semantic meaning of language,
>>>>>misinterprets what is said, sometimes wrongly
>>>thinking
>>>>>that comments of a satirical, ironic or general
>>>>>negative nature apply to him or herself
>>>>>
>>>>>29.) knows the words but not the song
>>>>>
>>>>>30.) is constantly imposing on others a false
>>reality
>>>>>made up of distortion and fabrication
>>>>>
>>>>>31.) sometimes displays a seemingly limitless
>>demonic
>>>>>energy especially when engaged in attention-seeking
>>>>>activities or evasion of accountability.

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