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Subject: There is nothing wrong with you

Author:
allyson

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Date Posted: 16:30:19 12/14/04 Tue
In reply to: Anonymous 's message, "Stuck" on 15:46:27 12/14/04 Tue

Anonymous,

I'm glad that you posted. It took a lot of courage.

You will always loose if you compare yourself to another person. Comparison is a lie. It is a result of us thinking that we are separate from each other. When really we are all the same underneath it all.

The biggest thing that will have an effect on your orgasm is your perception of it. If you think it is stuck, it will stay stuck. If you change your perception of the situation you will allow yourself to experience and perceive things in new ways. That will open up your mind to thinking in new ways, which will then have an impact on your body. All sex starts conceptually, in the mind and then it moves to the body and the body acts it out.

There is nothing wrong with the way you have an orgasm. Orgasm in our society is defined as a rapid set of contractions, approximately 5-7. There is a tensing up of the body. You clench up, clench up, clench up and then you go over a hard edge and then you come all the way down to a point lower than you were before you started having sex.

We define orgasm as when your genitals feel better than any other part of your body. Orgasm is every stroke, every kiss, every intimate look, every connection.

A rose is perfect in all of it's stages. When it is a bud, when it blooms and when it dies. Not just when it is in bloom. We only see pictures of a rose in bloom in our society because that is all we are shown, but that is not all that there is.

What are you feeling when you are having an intimate experience? What do your genitals feel like? Are they tingling? Is there vibration? Does it feel electric? If you can find one thing that you like about your orgasm, that is the beginning of creating a great sex life.

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Subject	Author	Date
going over	anonymous	16:59:18 12/14/04 Tue
What's behind it? -- Robert, 10:50:56 12/15/04 Wed well... -- anon, 11:23:06 12/15/04 Wed Point by Point -- Robert, 12:59:25 12/15/04 Wed mmmm... -- anon, 13:09:55 12/15/04 Wed Open, open, open... -- Nicole, 19:37:01 12/15/04 Wed
Ally, i love how loving you are	A.J.	06:26:37 01/02/05 Sun