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Subject: I've been trying this..

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Nicole

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Date Posted: 08:09:59 01/29/05 Sat
In reply to: RT 's message, "I need your advice" on 10:52:19 01/27/05 Thu

I've been looking at three things in myself where there is disconnection; 1)What am I protecting underneath my anger and frustration, what vulnerability is being touched. 2)What do I see in this person that is a part of me that I will not own, what part of my character am I having them hold because I am unwilling to. 3)What seemingly horrible (usually little) admission would I have to say to get closer again. It is usually something like "I have never been this close in this way and it feels unfamiliar and I like to feel like I know what I am doing".
I have been trying this new thing that when I want to run I go in closer...
And I let my friends love me while I am figuring out how to do it myself.
Much love,
Nicole

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