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Subject: Thanks for the Demo (reposted)

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DJ

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Date Posted: 10:38:20 06/10/04 Thu

I've read all the posts about the demo. I could feel the buzz in them, especially Lauren's. The women are bonding from the experience of a shared orgasim-not a bad basis to form new or closer friendships! So what can I add to the beautifully sensual and spiritual dialogue of the recent postings? I don't know, but I guess it's my turn.

I thought before the demo that the most important thing for me to do was to watch Nic and study how she does a women. After all, who better to learn from than another woman? I also was fascinated at the previous Demo by how she seemed to follow her own rules for doing. I was taught a specific way of doing as the best way, and since I have not had that many "do-dates" recently, I tend to stick by what is tried and safe. So when I saw Nic's fingers at the first Demo weave their magic over Ally's pussy and body with no concern about form or placement, I thought that is what I want to eventually achieve. I saw it as the Jazz of doing, where improvisation is everything. For me, whether it is doing, fucking, giving head, or kissing and caressing, the magical moment is when you become so atuned to your partner that you can play her like an instrument, evoking chords of pleasure in new and delightful sequences. In such moments there is no you or I. There is no time. In my experience those moments most often come when I am comfortable enough to improvise.

But, of course, this is easier said than done. Especially so for me, because I straddle two worlds. I like straddling these worlds, though it is not without some risk. A false move in such circumstances could cause considerable pain in some very vulnerable spots.

In my work world, my job is to minimize the damage from deals gone bad. The pressure can be considerable since often millions are at stake. If I make a mistake and it costs millions, that is my career. In such circumstances one must be coldly analytical, subdue emotion and be able to play a game of bluff poker with opponents. Actually, emotions do arise when millions of dollars are at stake, but they are not pretty. I have done this for a long time and do it well. Though, as a result of a recent merger, I may not be doing it after next Friday.

So, when I straddle the fence and come to this world, I come with an analytical predisposition. I was going to study Nic's technique and add it to my repetoire. I would become a doer extraordinaire! But something that rarely happens to me, happened. Maybe it was because I knew everyone from taking the course and felt more comfortable. Maybe it was the more intimate surroundings. Somewhere during the course of the Demo I left my left brain and moved to the right brain. I simply felt. I saw Ally's lithe body undulating with pleasure. I saw the expression on Nic's face and the dance of her fingers. I saw Becca, Meredith and Lauren moving in sync with Nic and Ally as if the orgasim had spread and engulfed them. I felt the heat of the room. I found myself moving to the rythum of both the music and the dance of pleasure in front of me. It had drawn me in. There was no desire to think about it or resist. I felt as if we were all doing each other in a spontaneous dance of pleasure. An ECO was no longer a concept. It was an experience. I like it. I thought to myself, without any conscious effort, I had successfully straddled the fence to the pleasurable side of the force! I slept well last night.

So, the left side of my brain tells me I have probably been way too verbose and should drastically edit. The right side says "fuck it". I guess on this Board I will follow the right side. After all, what's the worst you could do to me? Change the password without telling me? Oops!

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