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Subject: Judy...

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Kristen

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Date Posted: 19:00:29 08/16/04 Mon
In reply to: Judy 's message, "confusion" on 14:25:52 08/13/04 Fri

I get where you are at. The more you talk about it though the more you are just plain going backwards.

The greatest thing i think Nicole ever taught me was this. She said," WHATEVER IT TAKES. "

I cannot tell you HOW MANY TIMES i have been flat on my back (literally) stuck not wanting to get up, not wanting to let anyone touch me, see me, look at me, feel me, and since i lived in community, my friends were right there in my face and there would inevitably be one there who said come on lets go. And i would PEEL my ass off the floor and go forward.

That is the nature of resistance. And i just want to offer to you that it is going to look that terrifying and the truth is that THAT WILL NEVER CHANGE!!! EVER!!!! In fact you will probably become even more and more challenged by the strength of your own resistance. I have noticed that as i surrender to my desire, the pleasure on the other side has ongoingly been greater, and then ongoingly the resistance has also gotten greater, like the perfect balance beam - what is that great on the other side has equal measure in resistance.

Honestly, you may just have to grind your teeth and scream and walk forward and say yes. And after you do that you may cry or you may laugh or you may have a blank stare, you may be received the way you hope and you may be flat out refused!!!
There is just the unknown and that is the pulse we are all after.
Thank you for writing about this topic that we all live in wonder about daily.

Kristen

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