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Date Posted: 14:17:25 06/26/06 Mon
Author: Liz
Author Host/IP: NoHost / 12.31.208.217
Subject: Sandy and Mikki
In reply to: Sandy 's message, "Re: Frustration" on 12:34:53 06/26/06 Mon

Thanks.

Yes, I have thought about the fact that he will still work weekends and play ball when we are living under the same roof. At least I will get to see him for a little while when he gets home. I may even be glad to have some time to myself by then.

We have also talked about him possibly playing ball on a different night than Sunday. If I could have dinner and the evening with him, I wouldn't mind if he went to work during the day. He says he would consider playing ball on a different night, but he has played with the same team manager for years and I don't know if he will be willing to change.

I haven't pushed it right now because my kids are still home and sometimes at least we do things together on Sundays. It will become more important when they leave for college in September. That is when push will come to shove.

I also need to try harder to figure out what makes me happy in life so I can get involved in things I enjoy, which might force the compromises to be less one-sided. So far the problem has been that the things I think of to do are just filler. I would be doing them more to have something to kill time with than because I feel real passion for them (ike he does for softball).

I just don't know what I would enjoy -- nothing really excites me. It could be the depression. I do walk the dog because it is good for both of us and then I seem to keep busy with therapy every other week, hair and nail and facial and waxing appointments (the price of trying to fight the march of time and look good). I look at classes and nothing really piques my interest. I need some ideas!

Thanks for the feedback.

Liz

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