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Date Posted: 09:47:29 06/13/06 Tue
Author: Sandy
Author Host/IP: 24-158-61-135.static.hckr.nc.charter.com / 24.158.61.135
Subject: I'm going freaking crazy!!!

He's still at it. I think I'm going to have to get my supervisor to talk to Gary's supervisor to keep him out of my office. He comes up here and starts in on me again about all of this and I can't take any more. This morning he's gone on and on about how I've hurt his feelings and how he doesn't understand me until I finally just got up and walked out on him in mid-sentence. I've tried to be as nice about it as I know how to be. I told him that I'm sorry that I hurt his feelings. I didn't mean to but in the time we spent together I realized that we are way too different to be together. All we do is fuss and it would be much worse if we lived together because it will always get worse, never better. I told him that I don't want a relationship with him or anyone else right now, that I'm stressed and depressed and all I want to do right now is go home and sleep and be left alone and he wouldn't want to be with someone like that anyway. I told him that we have totally opposite viewpoints on most everything we talk about. I said that I've realized that right now I cannot handle a relationship. I told him that this constant pressure I'm getting from him is making it impossible for us to even be friends at this point so I really just need him to leave me alone. I asked if I was going to have to quit my job and stop answering my phone or move away to get him to leave me alone? He said no and that he's not going to pressure me or try to talk to me about it again. I pointed out that he's said that for the past couple weeks but he always comes back and starts on it again and it's driving me insane. I can't take anymore.

So...the next time he comes in this office I'm going to tell him that he needs to leave and that if he comes up here again I'll have to get our supervisors involved. I don't want to do that but I will if that's the only way to get him to leave me alone.

Why is it always something???? All I want is peace in my life and there's always something or someone driving me nuts. Every time I make the mistake of dating someone it ends up a big fat mess and I can't stand it. I think I'm better off alone. Yes, I do get lonely sometimes but at least I can come home and not have someone driving me insane. Matt and the cats don't cause problems for me. All I need is a few single friends to go hang out with sometimes and I'll be fine.

Guess I'll get back to work. I'm so nervous and agitated right now that I just want to rip my hair out!

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.

Sandy

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