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Date Posted: 11:35:58 06/16/06 Fri
Author: Mikki
Author Host/IP: 68-188-189-246.dhcp.bycy.mi.charter.com / 68.188.189.246
Subject: Re: OK..this is just for me...vain..shallow...but I need to know..
In reply to: Rhonda K 's message, "OK..this is just for me...vain..shallow...but I need to know.." on 04:32:51 06/16/06 Fri

I am overweight as well......about 60 lbs overweight. I say I haven't lost my baby weight yet.....(my baby is 18).
I know alot of it is because of the medicines I am on. Alot of them cause weight gain. But I still feel like a fat pig when I go out to by clothes because I have grown out of them again.

I don't know why my husband is still attracted to me sexually. Its been 21 years, and although we don't get together much anymore, he keeps telling me I am beautiful to him. I feel awful......When I get depressed really bad, I lose weight really easily. Although I am still 40 lbs lighter than I was at my worst, I still have 60 to go. I wish I could be that 150 lb woman Mike married. I don't know if that would make me feel better about myself or not. I hate myself most of the time, and I can't figure out why people like me. I've strayed from the marriage before, and they always said I was beautiful too. I don't get it......my problem I guess. I do try to watch what I eat now....trying to just maintain so I don't get too fat again. But I know how you feel, and I think it is just our poor self image that is fueling this feeling.

Love, Mikki

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