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Date Posted: 13:03:41 08/02/01 Thu
Author: Ezalia
Subject: Re: Can't stand these doubts....
In reply to: Janira 's message, "Can't stand these doubts...." on 15:53:06 05/11/01 Fri

Sighz... i understand completely what u mean. I've been in that situation unfortunately more than once with my current bf of a yr pluss. While he was withme, he called his ex-gf up, recollect their old memories together. I got to know from his ex-gf herself, but he insisted that he was misinterpreted. I chose to believe him, cos i believe that trust is an important factor in any relationships. I also got to found out form my close friends that he had the hots for my friend days after we had our breakup. It turns out that he had turned to her for comfort, and fell for her. After less than a wk?? Ohmigod! Of coz, silly me didn't know about all this until I came and asked for patch bcos i feel that he's the other half of me. Soon after we got back together, all my friends were mad, and very concern with me bein with him. I don't even have the slightest idea why. And then i found out. But up til now, he still denies the story my friends have been telling me about him liking my friend. I chose to believe my friends too, just like you. And now, i feel as if I'm living my life alone with him. And that's if we don't fight. And even if we do, then I'll be so pathetically alone, not that it matters so much, but i just doubt him because of this matter. Everytime i think about this, it just makes me wonder whether i can trust him again, and whether his love for me are nothing but fake, and all his words are lies. Sigh! But all I know I definitely will have a hard time if we were to split. HELP!!!

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