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Subject: Guessing you are new. B&B is Beth and Blaine (you know, the Miss Oregon state directors). Posting here does nothing go tell B&B Author: No name [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 20:47:18 06/06/25 Fri In reply to: 's message, "I have to respectfully disagree. Calling out toxic behavior—especially when it’s ongoing and harmful—is not the same as “bashing” or spreading hearsay. Protecting girls by staying silent only allows bad behavior to continue unchecked. If someone has experienced or witnessed mistreatment, they should absolutely feel empowered to speak up. Saying “take it to B&B” assumes those systems always work or that girls feel safe using them. That’s not always the case. And telling people to “keep it to themselves” if it’s hearsay can silence those who may be trying to protect others from the same hurt. This forum should be a place where real conversations happen. Ignoring the problem to protect appearances does more harm than good. Accountability isn’t hate—it’s growth." on 19:06:56 06/06/25 Fri [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Do you really think slandering young women on this board accomplishes ANYTHING? Beth and Blaine have a track record of handling issues privately with success. At least that was our experience. Author: Local Director [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:10:41 06/16/25 Mon [ Post a Reply to This Message ]