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Subject: Re: hey everybody

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bittersweet

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Date Posted: 15:15:32 11/05/04 Fri
In reply to: rita 's message, "Re: hey everybody" on 14:45:50 11/05/04 Fri

>i agree with you all
>the thing is he is only 18 he has no idea what its
>like
>and what he tells me for him he thinks he is doing the
>right thing ... while he really shouldn't be telling
>me these stuff just like deb said ...
>its not easy at all and because i lost weight my
>family expects me to keep it that way and all of my
>family friedns were like you look great ( i lost like
>20 lbs)
>i really just want to maintain my weight now... but
>it's so hard. I'm used to fast through the week and
>than eat on the weekend i know this has happend to a
>lot of you
>i really am happy with how i look now 113 is a good
>weight
>i'm going insane i have these phobias of gaining
>weight
>i'm sure all of you have ... tnx guys
>
>hope you all have a great weekend

in my opinion, it really doesnt seem like your boyfriend or family know just how much you're struggling at the moment....people can say "you look great" and not know the pain, anguish, and misery that often comes with the territory of "looking great"....i can identify with you on the boyfriend thing....i think i've already told all the girls here about my ex-bf with the "110 Lb Rule"...yep. he had an actual RULE about how much his girlfriends should weigh...i was about 128 at the time--i got to 110, we started dating, and he didn't give a rats ass when i got down to 90 and got very sick....ugh. some men are just ridiculous....i'm not even sure if i can blame them or just society in general....but i really dont want you to lose hope. like deb said, you DESERVE better, and as time goes on, i'm sure you'll find someone better!! but that's basically up to you. just to let you know we are all concerned here for your well-being!! the only advice i can give you to try to communicate better to these people in your lives--dont let them run your life or determine how much you should weigh. do whatever you need to do to get yourself healthier and feeling better. that is all that's important right now !:) take care

~jane~

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: hey everybody	Deb	13:11:59 11/06/04 Sat