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Date Posted: 18:44:59 04/19/05 Tue
Author: drama queen calling me the drama king...geez
Subject: Re: silly man has died from neglect-eom
In reply to: you just won't address YOUR behavior....... 's message, "Re: silly man has died from neglect-eom" on 15:58:52 04/19/05 Tue

Ps-it was four posts to your TWO, not one-not that the facts have ever mattered much to you. You see I do something YOU don't do-I actually read and reread what YOU say to Me and then sometimes realize I didn't respond to something you said.
You wouldn't know about that since you've yet to say even ONE word about what caused this lastest and last argument- your changing everything and letting me just catch on to the new order, one more major change in our relationship made by you only days after reassuring me nothing would change and without so much as a word of warning to me or any real and completely honest explanation until well over two months later.

And for the 'drama queen' to talk about anyone else's need for attention, sympathy, approval or whatever is the heighth of hypocrisy. Especially since I have always freely admitted that I like feedback and especially when I try to entertain people, like any comic. I have never denied my need for approval, I face that fact squarely and own up to it. The hypocrisy is not just that you are far and away the most dramatic poster, talking about yourself more than anyone else it's also that you always deny needing feedback or approval, etc.

Your post about PTSD was a perfect example of not only your need to gain sympathy but also how you treated me, your best friend at what we once thought of as 'our' BB. You acted like no one, me included had ever said a damn word to you about PTSD-all for the sake of making that dramatic plea to Jeffro in particular when the fact was that we had talked about ALL of your questions before that and you had plenty of information about PTSD long before you made that plea for help. But thats just one more of many things you actually did that you refused to see. You made me look like a poor friend, a PTSD combat vet who had NEVER even tried to help you.

Your excuse was as lame as any five year olds-quote:'I didn't actually SAY that NO ONE had ever helped'!
No, you didn't say that exactly, you just said everything but that and it was obvious that was your intent. You played drama queen and made me and anyone else that ever helped you with PTSD disappear that day at my BB. You sold out all my help for the sake of looking like a damsel in distress. Lecture someone else on their need to seek sympathy, etc, bobbi.

And when I vented at Hell's Forum not a goddamn soul in the world knew what or who I was talking about except you...until YOU added all kinds of details in your dramatic reply to make it far easier for anyone to figure it out.
As for this place, YOU talked about this place at your BB and I looked for it to read the other poems. Later I posted my silly poem, which I thought might help us and you acted like you appreciated. The guy who owns this place obv doesn't come here often, when he next does he can get rid of this as fast as you got rid of the threads you wanted gone at your place.

Blaming me for trying once again to get you to FACE REALITY after you IGNORED my side of our argument in our emails is almost funny.
I came here since no one else but you and i were posting here and I had the crazy idea that here you might finally face what YOU did and then, and this is even crazier, then might actually show some humanity and feeling about what YOU did to our friendship and what you didn't do-namely tell me about it, be honest about it with the guy who is the other half of this friendship.

But that was crazy of me-one of my problems all along was still hoping that you really gave a damn despite much evidence to the contrary. I kept hoping and hoping that I was wrong, but I wasn't. Goodbye bobbi the drama queen who has chased more people away from BBs with her all-about-bobbi posts and know-it-allness, etc than anyone I know, but I once loved you in spite of your numerous flaws. I defended your right to be imperfect-but you've used my flaws to push me away and validate your mistreatment of me. Hardly the thing a 'best friend' does, but you have it all worked out so that it's all okay, as usual.
You even have me acting this way because supposedly I'm unhappy that you're happy. Jesus Christ.

NO. I was unhappy that you DESTROYED most of what was left of our friendship without having the goddamn decency to warn me or tell me the damn truth about it until months later, bobbi. You can never deny that and Tom was right-you had a MORAL OBLIGATION to tell me the TRUTH about that-there is no excuse for that. None.

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