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As for the BBs, well I've covered that-we both know how you often treat me there.
Funny, but not that long ago 'phone calls, emails and BBs' weren't enough for YOU, either. Now, that's changed and you've forced me back to where all I had was emails and the BBs to use if I wanted to contact YOU-two places where I can only TRY to communicate, but not in real-time and then HOPE that you care enough that day to respond to me anytime soon-and as you show me so often, you don't care to respond that day and often, never respond, period.
Some best friendship. I have more ways to contact many people I know, casual acquaintances even, for godsake. You call this 'coddling' me?! I will laugh everytime I hear that word for the rest of my life. Coddle, right, geez.
Actually the communication limits that YOU have forced on ME make my ability to contact you a little less than what J**** has! He, at least can call you and do so at night, too-and of course, he gets replies at the BB when you see his posts, sometimes 3 in one morning-one on the same thread you ignored me on (!)-not that that is unique, sadly, it isn't.
Yeah, I am so demanding.
I expect my best friend to let me call as she can, to let me start a chat once in a blue moon as she can, to let me send an IM that might be read this month as she can, to at least want to read my email the same day she got it and to actually respond to me when I post TO her at the BBs.
I expect a best friend who loves to play games to play a game with me now and then, too.
Shame on me for being such a needy weirdo! Good thing we're breaking up, now you can hang around normal people who don't expect equal communication rights, who will gladly let you control their lives and not mind if you tell them that you can call them but they can't call you; that you can start chats, but they can't; that they mustn't ever 'expect' replies from you just because they replied to you, etc.
Yeah, lucky for you I'm leaving with all of my selfishness and mind-bogglingly unrealistic expectations from my BEST friend.-bob, so demanding he dared to expect equality and instead got whatever bobbi ALLOWED him to have and often found out that even then he didn't get treated fairly, since it has always had to be exactly as she wanted it to be so for example, she turned her Yahoo off the INSTANT she was through chatting with him and it didn't come back on until the next time SHE wanted to chat with him, a typical example of 'fairness' in the mind of only bobbi-and an example to her of my unreasonable expectations, lol! Yep, I was a greedy bastard, I wanted parity or something close to it but that was always too much to ask of her-the great coddler that she was
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