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Date Posted: 14:28:24 04/16/05 Sat
Author: sorry, but...
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Re: silly man has died from neglect-eom
In reply to: what?! 's message, "Re: silly man has died from neglect-eom" on 13:54:07 04/16/05 Sat

you don't get to say: 'you can't call, bob', 'no more games ever, bob', 'don't IM me cuz I won't check it for weeks, bob', 'no more chats, bob', 'if you email me I might trash it unread if you dare to try to speak openly about OUR problems, bob-or I might just ignore it for awhile', etc but then after doing all that tell me that I must allow you on my BB.
Of course the sad fact is that you've never said most of that, you've just done it-made it a reality without telling me beforehand or explaining it honestly or feeling bad about it.

You don't get to all but destroy our relationship, but then tell me that I have to keep the BB open to you though you've closed off most of what we had unilaterally. You don't get to control everything afterall and you don't get to rub my nose in how much you've changed your feelings for me almost everyday by either ignoring my posts to you or acting like I'm just another guy at the BB, at BEST and at worst, reminding me of how you once treated me by how often you treat a few of the other guys like they're so very special.

No, you don't get to control everything and you dont get to hurt me with impunity, walking all over me and my feelings as you have done so often and with never a WORD of understanding or sympathy, either.

You wanted me out of your life almost all the way, well, I WANT YOU TO FINISH THE JOB AND GET THE HELL OFF MY BB. You don't get to pick one thing that you still want to exist in our relationship after throwing out almost everything else, bobbi.

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Re: silly man has died from neglect-eom -- PS I didnt post anything about this at YOUR BB.., 19:35:08 04/16/05 Sat