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Date Posted: 13:54:07 04/16/05 Sat
Author: what?!
Subject: Re: silly man has died from neglect-eom
In reply to: bobbi 's message, "Re: silly man has died from neglect-eom" on 08:11:36 04/16/05 Sat

You continue to ignore the main issues, my complaint is NOT that you spent more time with your family and you know that, damn it-ITS THAT YOU CHANGED EVERYTHING WITHOUT A WORD OF WARNING, THEN LIED ABOUT IT, GAVE ME PHONY EXCUSES, DIDNT TELL ME WHAT WAS REALLY HAPPENING OR WHY IT WAS REALLY HAPPENING-NOT FOR TWO AND A HALF DAMN MONTHS!!! GOD! YOU ARE SO DISHONEST!!!!!AND YOU DID THIS UNILATERAL CHNAGE A COUPLE OF DAYS AFTER REASSURING ME THAT NOTHING WOULD CHANGE, YOU LIAR!!!!! YOU CONTINUE TO LIE, NOW, BECAUSE YOU KNOW THAT IS MY ISSUE WITH YOU AND YOU HAVE REFUSED TO SAY A DAMN WORD ABOUT IT, IGNORING MY EMAILS WHEN WE ARGUED THO I READ YOUR EVERY WORD AS USUAL, TRASHING THEM UNREAD, ACTING AS IF THIS DOESN'T EXIST!! AND TO TOP IT OFF YOUVE NOT SHOW ONE IOTA THAT IT MATTERED TO YOU, HOW THIS HIT ME_NOT BEFORE YOU DID IT, NOT DURING AND CERTAINLY NOT AFTERWARD-AS YOURE PROVING HERE AGAIN AND AGAIN. YOU REPLIED TO ONE TINY THING I SAID OUT OF MANY-TYPICAL BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO GOOD ANSWER FOR ALL THE FACTS I PRESENT THAT EXPLAIN WHY IM FED UP WITH YOUR HYPOCRITICAL, DISHONEST, INSENSITIVE, SELFISH WAYS. NOT ONLY ARE YOU PROVING MY CASE BY STILL IGNORING IT< YOURE PROVING HOW HEARTLESS YOU ARE BECAUSE IT OBV DIDNT AND DOESNT MATTER TO YOU THAT YOU CHANGED MY LIFE COMPLETELY WITHOUT WARNING, EXPLANATION OR SYMPATHY. AND YOU LIED ABOUT FROM START TO FINISH! AND NOW. I THOT SIONCE YOU FIGHT SO UNFAIRLY, IGNORING THE OTHER PERSONS WHOLE POINT FOR ARGUING< NOT READING HIS REPLIES THAT POSTING HERE WOULD AT LEAST MAKE YOU FINALLY ADDRESS THE FACTS-FAT CHANCE. YOURE AS UNFAIR AND DISHONEST EVEN WHEN OTHERS MIGHT BE WATCHING. AND NOW YOVE COME BACK TO THE BB WHERE YOU ARE NO LONGER WELCOME-WITHOUT ONCE EVEN TALKING ABOUIT WHAT YOU DIOD TO US, TO ME UNILATERALLY, WITHOUT ONCE EVEN SHOWING A SIGN OF REGRET FOR THE HARM YOUVE DONE. AND INSTEAD CONTINUE TO IGNORE YOURE ACTIONS, CONTINUE TO DENY REALITY BY NOT SPEAKING ABVOUT IT, TWIST THE FACTS TO FIT YOUR BS, ETC! THIS HASNT BEEN ABOUT DAN SINCE THE DAYS WHEN YOU MADE IT ABOUT HIM< BACK WHEN HE WAS TREATING YOU LIKE CRAP AND YOU WERE ONCE AGAIN ACTING LIKE YOU HAD STRONGER FEELINGS FOR ME-YOUVE MADE IT ABOUT DAN MORE RECENTLY THAN I HAVE, I DONT HAVE ANY PROBLEM WITH HIM OR YOUR CHILDREN OR THE TIME YOU SPEND WITH THEM-ITS NOT TELLING ME THINGS WRE GOING TO CHANGE SO DRASTICALLY< LETTING ME FIND OUT THE HARD WAY< NOT GIVING A DAMN ABOUT MY SIDE OF OUR RELATIONSHIP, GODDAMN IT-AND THE LYING ABOUT IT FOR SO LONG!!!!!YOU GAVE INTO HIS WISHES AND 'FORGOT' TO TELL ME-THE OTHER GUY, THE ONE WHO HAD TO ACCEPT ALL THE CHANGES-THAT WAS INEXCUSABLE!!!! YOU HAD A MORAL OBLIGATION TO TELL ME WHAT YOU WERE DOING, BOBBI!! ANYONE WITH A BRAIN AND A HEART KNOWS THAT-BUT YOU LEFT ME IN THE DARK-LIED ABOUT IT and to this minute show that you didn't care then, during or now.
AND you ignored all the other stuff, too-you picked one tiny thing out, the only thing you could find to debate? Well, thats honest at least, you know damn well everything i say is the truth no matter how you try to ignore that or deny it or twist it around to make yourself look like something you're not-a coddler, for example. You did so look at everything you got that one day without even reading my email-you still hadnt read it by the late evening, tho you'd checked every other damn thing you got-the only reason you finally read it was because I complained about one more example of just how little you cared about me or my feelings then-when I was dependent on emails and BBs and you continued to treat me like I was invisible in both places at times. I subscribe to hopeUSA too, but I read emails from FRIENDS and FAMILY before I check a hundred of her things and I dont go to be with unread emails from my BEST FRIEND in my inbox. You don't either, unless it's ME. "Thanks' for showing me you still refuse to get it, still choose to lie and make this about something else when you know exactly what its about. And youre back at my BB where you are not welcome.
Thanks for just one more example of how little what I want has ever mattered. You can change huge parts of out relationship without warning, explanation or remorse-at least I warned you, I've explained it and I do feel very bad about all of this...but there you are not giving a damn about the fact that you've hurt me tremendously and I want you to finish the JOB YOU STARTED and get ALL THE WAY out of my life!!

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