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Date Posted: 05:39:37 06/25/02 Tue
Author: 百痴菌
Subject: 愛情與保障

愛情和保障是不能同時並存，戀愛和誓言是互相矛盾。
保障是一種規定，一種保證。
規定是要愛某人輩子。
問題並不在於你能否做到，而是…
愛情是一種發自內心的感情，豈可規定呢？

你能規定小孩子要「喜歡」那一種動物嗎？
你能規定一個人要「喜歡」那一首歌曲嗎？
你能規定自己喜歡一個人多久嗎？

凡是發自內心裡的喜歡，發自內心的裡的愛，都是一種感覺，一種感動。
從心裡有感而發，自然而生，是無法控制的。
它的感受，因內外在環境因素的影響，心裡的情緒時刻起伏不定，分秒難以捉摸。
這種微妙的感覺怎能夠加以規定。
何況不止規定現在，還要規定將來。
甚至發誓保證、蓋章、簽字以求保障﹗
對﹗愛是沒有誓言、不能保證，無從保障？
內心的感覺是不能簽合約的，只有商業行為才可以。
愛情是不可以開空頭支票的，因為愛情根本就沒有支票可開。
如果有人硬是要開，那他一定是隨便在空中畫兩下，因為是隱形的，看不到摸不著，勸你千萬別收

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