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] Date Posted: 3/05/07 20:00 i'm writing on behalf of snowtiger to ask you all to think of him... his best friend 'del' passed over today.... snowtiger had not seen him for some time and feels awful.. to the point of pushing everyone away. i am going there to see him and stay with him as soon as i finish work tonight. if i admit it, i don't know if he's gonna do something silly. i want to be there for him. he can't handle death at all and it makes no sende to him when anyone tries to comfort him.... please, think of him . xx sam [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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Author: whitewolf [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 3/05/07 20:08 A candle is lit for 'del' and for snowtiger too... may snowtiger allow comfort to find him. It's hard losing someone special, especially if you haven't seen them recently, he's lucky to have you with him Sam... Blessings to you both. x x x [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Paganwolf [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 3/05/07 20:22 I'm so sorry to hear that. i'll light a candle and keep you both in my prayers. PW )0( [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Lilly from the Valley [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 4/05/07 8:56 Hello Sam Im so sorry to hear of this. All you can do is be there for Snowtiger. I am sure, deep down, he know you want to help him get through this, he just cant find it in him at the moment. Time will heal his wounds. If he is feeling guilty that he hasnt seen Del in a while, why not suggest he write him a letter and take to somewhere special you know Del would have loved. When he is ready, you could try talking to Snowtiger about Del and all the things they used to get up to. If you dont know much about him, perhaps you could ask Snowtiger to tell you all about him. Talking about things really can help with acceptance of a situation. You could also suggest you make a nice meal with candles and wine and spend the evening in memory of and as a tribute to Del. Are there any photographs available that you could look at together? None of this may be right for Snowtiger right now but he will let you know when he is ready to move things forward. Be patient sweet Sam, he will come round I am sure. Blessings to you all Lil [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Pilgrim [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 4/05/07 11:47 A candle is lit. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: sam spaniel [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 4/05/07 19:58 thank you guy's for your help.... i got to snowtiger's house last night and he had calmed considerably, he said as he lit his candle for Del the despair he was feeling just seemed to ebb away, bless him, we put a candle on the window sil so Del could see it from where ever he is now. he feels a lot better now. thank you all again love sam xx [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: zenwind [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 6/05/07 19:18 Hi Sam. How is snowtiger doing? Thinking of him and sending thoughts and comfort to you both. Lighting a candle for Del who was clearly loved very much. namaste zenwind /\ [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: sam spaniel [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 7/05/07 14:30 snow tiger is bearing up very nicely now... he lights a candle for Del in the evenings, we went to the pub yesterday and put in to the 'military widows and orphans' collection for his memory. he's ok is snowtiger, he said he just had to get it all out of his system. going to the funeral on 14th may (1 weeks time) thank you for your concern xx [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |