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] Date Posted: 26/01/07 16:43 In reply to: Dragonlady 's message, "Negativity breeds negativity" on 25/01/07 19:53 sweetsong.... i don't mean to sound brutal, but once in a while try thinking about those who are worse off than yourself.... i am on anti depressants.. and i am not ashamed to say so... 3 years ago i had major surgery to remove a tumor in my cervix and womb.... i got through that... (i was 26 and to be told at that time of your life you can never carry a child is heartbreaking believe me!!).... this year , within 8 weeks i lost both of my wonderful grandparents, i had an absolute breakdown ... that's when the gp put me on anti depressents, i was offered councelling too, and the gp still likes to see me monthly to see if i am ok... the wonderful people in the Garden pulled me through what i considered to be the utter most worse time in my life, and i am grateful for that!! so very grateful i light a candle for all every day/night of the week by my grandparents picture, Sweetsong, i believe you to be very over sensitive to words (which in essence are just words) if you feel you must go then i wish you all the best of luck, but also if you carry on thinking of yourself the way you do at the moment, you will end up outing yourself from every forum you choose to out yourself from.... another forum isn't going to change the way you think about yourself.... you are the only person who can do that, when i return from work tonight i will light a candle for you, i will send you ripples of strength to reach inside yourself and stand up for yourself instead of running away, please don't leave us, the garden can be a very positive place to be,, but (IMO) everywhere you go be it real or cyber is what YOU make of it. no one else can change the way you see yourself!! It's my 30th birthday today, i am having my 1st b.day away from my nan and grandad, but i know they would be proud of me, i miss them like crazy, but at the end of the day they are not coming back (in the physical form anyways) and i accept that.... i'm 30 (oh no!!) but even tho i may not be the most confident person, i value me, i am grateful for my health and for being here today!! sorry to go on but i have been negative and not once in the garden have i been made to feel i should leave, maybe you should re-read some of the thread replies before you fire answers back... oh i am sorry, but feeling positive today and i like to learn to appreciate myself for who i am coz i am an individual and i'm not gonna change... i had to get used to that (as many people do) so you should try it too. take care of yourself hunny please love and huggles sam xxxxxxxxxxxxx [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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Author: Wolfsdream [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 26/01/07 17:30 Good words Sam. Oh....and HAPPY BIRTHDAY Sam...Yay!!!....maybe we should have a virtual party for you??? At least you have the weekend to recover...LOL. Wolfsdream. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |