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Subject: Re: Negativity breeds negativity

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Lilly from the Valley

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Date Posted: 30/01/07 16:06
In reply to: Dragonlady 's message, "Negativity breeds negativity" on 25/01/07 19:53

Oh dear Sweetsong

Please try not to take things personally hun. None of us is perfect - we all make mistakes and we all feel fragile from time to time.

You sound like an amazing person to me. It takes someone strong and brave to stand on their own 2 feet as you have. I cant believe that you are not full of pride for yourself - its not every young woman who can say they have their own pad and support themselves, regardless of race or disability. You go girl and keep on going. Too many people feel they MUST have someone in their lives to make them successful and worthy. Whilst it is nice to have companionship, we dont actually NEED it to survive - you are a shining example of this.

Go with the flow hun - there are always going to be comments and remarks made that hurt you - thats the way the world is, unfortunately. But rise above them - dont feel the need to analyse everything. It doesnt matter. What does matter is the person YOU are and if you ask me, your a good un.

Keep coming to the Garden - we are all learning in our own way. This Garden is filled with love and I dont believe for one minute that anyone here has meant to hurt you with their words. They are merely offering their support which YOU may choose to take or not. You call the shots huney, no one else.

Be the bright, happy, bubbly girl I know is in there waiting to jump out. You are alive, you are beautiful. live life to the hilt.

Blessings Lil

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[> Subject: Re: Negativity breeds negativity
Author: sam spaniel [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 30/01/07 16:30 yeah!! ditto to that!!! love sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxx [ Post a Reply to This Message ]