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Subject: suggestion


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fran
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Date Posted: 09:21:47 04/04/05 Mon

Hi folks,
I've got a suggestion. Just say if you think it's a really bad idea. It sounds like some of us are having a tough time at the moment with ana (not me) or mia (definitely me!). Hows about setting up a kind of buddy system, where everyone who wants to participate posts under a particular thread each day to say how they're doing and if they need to vent. Personally, I only speak to 1 person once a week who knows about my ed. I find the day i see her i can manage it, but by the next day my control has gone. Maybe if we can increase that contact we can decrease the control of the ed. I'm not even saying someone's goals have to be 'healthy' - the way i see it, as long as we're all responsible for ourselves, that's ok. Not sure if i expressed that right but...

Me, i've got a new system (as of today, so i don't know if it works yet). I ride horses, and a lesson costs £18. I figure I spend at least £10 most days on mia. So if I don't binge for a week, i get an extra riding lesson (i know the maths doesn't add up, but i haven't got time for more). Let's see if this provides the needed impetus.

Anyway, hope you're all ok. Take care
fran

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Re: suggestionChocolate00:09:28 04/05/05 Tue
Re: suggestionbabydoll05:20:01 04/05/05 Tue


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