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Subject: Re: Men- obsessed with womens weight?

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Date Posted: 15:40:45 07/09/05 Sat
In reply to: Chocolate 's message, "Re: Men- obsessed with womens weight?" on 01:35:13 07/09/05 Sat

>Hi,
>
>I can calm you down on this one. Playboy (the american
>one) has done a research the past year on what men
>find attractive in woman. the result:
>
>1) bones sticking out basically are not what men want
>2) a skinny woman does not 'give you anything to hold'
>3) a 'rond and curved' woman is attractive as long as
>she is a little 'thight'
>
>Men in this research prefer woman with a normal size
>as their ideal bed partner above skinny woman. They
>say the woman in the magazines are 'nice' to look at
>but in real life they like a real woman. But she needs
>to be thight in her skin. So a medium size, sportive
>woman is preferable above a small size woman.
>
>So these kids on mtv are just saying what they think
>society expects them to say in order to be cool.
>
>My husband thinks I am too thin, in his words I should
>get some meat on my ass. When he is with his football
>friends being cool (they are never really sexist) they
>always, when they discuss woman agree that some woman
>are too skinny and that 'they should order her a big
>pizza'.
>
>There are researchers (biologists) that claim that
>skinny woman are sexually not as attractive than
>medium woman because men can 'smell or sense' the
>decrease in hormones when underweight. It then would
>only be natural that they consider these woman less
>attractive because she could not reproduce the
>species. (whether you believe this or not is your
>choice, this is not a proven thing, I just wanted to
>mention this to make this complete)
>
>In another research done in germany men claimed that
>they would rather not be with a woman with a extreme
>weight (both ways) because they consider it
>unattractive and they would worry to much about the
>womans health.
>
>In my opinion, sure there are men who prefer skinny,
>but I believe most men like an 'average size woman'
>Being cool on tv does not reflect real opinions.
>
>Hope this helps a little
>
>Choco

That does help! if only everybody could think like that. i think a lot of men do say they like extremely thin women, to be cool, even if they really dont. perhaps a lot of them dont, and the trend will hopefully change.

my boyfriend does the same thing, says i should gain more weight, even at my highest. when i lose weight, he'll say "where did you go?"

lol, there ARE some good men out there. three cheers to them!! mine definately has to put up with a lot of crap ;)

<3 jane

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