| Subject: thanks choco and lara <3 |
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Date Posted: 18:41:40 07/21/05 Thu
In reply to:
lara
's message, "Re: On fear" on 06:46:18 07/21/05 Thu
>Very true, Chocolate! Right on target!
>
>I can add that I met some of the most wonderful people
>and one of my best friends in an ed program.
>
>>Hi,
>>
>>I just wanted to post this, in the first place for
>>bittersweet but also for everybody.
>>
>>I need you to know that all AND I REALLY MEAN ALL ed
>>patients looking for help are affraid that they are
>>not sick enough, that their ed is not bad enough that
>>others will think they are overreacting, that they
>>have no problem compared to the 'real anorectics'. ALL
>>OF THEM ARE WRONG.
>>
>>ALL ed-ers are affraid that other people wont like
>>them, that they will form a group against them, that
>>they will laugh about them behind their back, that
>>they will say you do not really have a problem, that
>>you are a wannabe. THEY ARE ALL WRONG
>>
>>I understand that people are affraid of this, I am
>>affraid of this too (although its going better now) I
>>want everyone to know,that if you seek help in a group
>>all these other people in this group are affraid of
>>the same thing. They are all worried about this, so
>>they definately will not do this to someone else. Its
>>a part you get with your ed for free and we all have
>>it.
>>
>>I hope this will help
>>
>>Chocolate
i feel a lot better now, thanks guys--really...you've helped "ground me", lol
i told the lady i saw today all of my fears and she said all her anorexic and bulimic patients say the SAME exact thing- they're also usually hesitant to meet the other girls. i enjoy the way she put it: "NOBODY'S thin enough, hun". i like her.
i swear i felt i was going insane with nervousness but not so much anymore. it's just that ED part of me is so illogical and so completely irrational. i know everybody here knows what i mean about that...which is why if this group is anything like sitting in a room full of you guys, i know i'd love it.
so i'm gonna find out what's going on in a few weeks or hopefully sooner...
much love (and thanks)
~jane~
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