Date Posted:09:21:09 05/21/11 Sat Author: Ben Subject: Re: If you are here still In reply to:
Margaret
's message, "Re: If you are here still" on 09:09:15 05/20/11 Fri
Hello, Margaret,
>Ben, hi,
>thank you for such quick answer. I have day off today
>and can answer to upu quickly too with my big pleasure.
I am very glad to read this.
> - Ben, I remember it (and I have a few
>questions about it), but I have no decision still. It
>would be good humiliation punishment for him, but it
>can trouble his social contacts in school, if
>classmates (and, perhaps, Jessica!) will see him with
>shaved genitals and bottom. Perhaps, threat only will
>be good medicine for Jack.
Please describe his reaction to me, OK?
>
> Ben, a few questions about shaving:
>1. Were you yourself shaved by Mom so? If yes, how
>often she did it, and which age were you when she
>stopped do it?
Yes, she did it once a week. She hated pubic hair and she was obsessed by the idea that dirt could hide within it.
I was 18 when she stopped. She knew I did it myself since then.
>2. Who could see you shaved, and what they told about
>it?
My whole family could see the procedure and my classmates could see the result.
It was no big deal. Other parents shared the opinion of my mom so some classmates were shaved, too.
>3. How your Mom shaved you?
She used a normal non-electric shaver. I had to stand with spread legs sideways in the bathtub, my hands pressed to the nape. She stood before me and shaved my privates.
I mostly got an erection during the procedure, but that just made it easier for my mom to shave me.
For the bottom and crack, I had to turn, to bend over and to spread my cheeks by hands.
Which age it was most
>embarrassed for you?
In no age because I never knew it in another way. It was normal for me.
>4. Did she shave pubic hair only or hair around anus
>and into crack were shaved too?
Completely. So it was much easier for me and her to wipe after and to keep my anus clean.
Believe me, it's a great advantage!
Perhaps you could only shave into Jack's crack?
No one would knew except you and him and it would improve his cleanliness!
>5. How old were Kevin and Vanessa, when you shaved
>them first and last times?
First time Vanessa with 12, Kevin with 15 (his pubic hair came late).
Last time both with 17.
>6. Who shaved Mark - you or his Mom, and, if his Mom,
>was he shaved separately or in front twins? If
>separately, were twins embarrassed that they are
>shaved in front him but he in privacy?
Mark wasn't witness. He was also shaved in privacy and only by his mom.
> - Ben, perhaps, I wrong but I didn't want to wash
>myself his "hard".
What is the problem? You are his mother and it would be easier for you and better for him (than to get cold water).
>>
>>Don't you think that's a too small amount of water?"
>-
> Ben, it was enough for Jack's stool stimulation.
OK.
> - He little protested but I told that I Mom and
>know better. In this position he was obedience.
That's fine.
>>Very good." - Ben, I understand, it was
>embarrassed for him, but he deserved good lesson and
>Nancy is very close to our family. Mike is growing
>near Jack all life and they are almost as brother. I
>decided, that Jack had to demonstrate his behind for
>youger Mike too and it would be good lesson for both
>kids.
I understand that, Margaret. You did absolutely right.
> - Ben, which reason was for special invitation?
>Was you and your Mom witnesses only or you was
>parcipitant of
>"spanking party" then. Please, describe it more
>detail.
It was the same cause that you have to invite Nancy and Mike. It should increase his embarrassment and it should be a lesson for him - and for me.
>By the way, in next coversation I'l have a few
>questions about "spanking parties" with your trio, OK?
Margaret, if you insist, but we talked about it in detail in the last year. You still can read all about it in the thread "Together boys masturbate".
If you ask the same questions about it, I can only repeat.
> "Who was witness except you?
>>Adams sister, Berts grand mother." - was sister
>younger or older? Was she punished in front brother
>too? If yes, were you witness too?
She is younger. Yes, she was punished also in front brother. I was witness one time, but usually she was a good girl enough to prevent that.
> Ben, how often Adam and Bert got checking and
>spanking? Were they (and, perhaps, you too) checked
>and spanked together?
I don't know how often. You must understand, we boys didn't like to talk about this matters.
We were never checked and spanked together.
> - Ben, how old was "Adam", when you last time
>saw changing his diapers? Did you want see it
>yourself, or his mother ordered to you to be witness?
He was 16 and my mother ordered to me.
It was horrifying for him.
Could you imagine to use diapers for your Jack?
>Your advices help me. Thank you!
> Margaret
I am very lucky to read that.
>
>PS. Jack tells that 16 is too old for spanking and he
>needs more freedom. Which is better answer for him? I
>told age no differ, and if his behavior will bad in
>19, he will get spanking in 19!. Your opinion?
Margaret, it is absolutely okay.
You are the mother and you decide, no one else.
Tell Jack from me that his mother shall punish him like a kid as long as he behaves like a kid.
Please also tell him how I was shaved and that it's better to keep the privates clean.
I would like to hear his opinion!
