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Date Posted: 11:53:28 06/17/01 Sun
Author: Psalmsong
Subject: Re: struggling with guilt over divorce
In reply to: misty 's message, "struggling with guilt over divorce" on 15:43:40 09/21/00 Thu

Dear Misty,
BEEN THERE!. First off I posted a letter telling my story under Psalmsong. Read it and you will know that I do understand! I never even signed my divorce papers I felt so strong against divorce. I HAD Biblical grounds. My husband had a girlfriend while we were married and while we were separated for 2 years. He dicorced me and married her 3 months later. He had no grounds for the divorce. (but, I did) He lied to the Pastors of my church and the courts.

Misty, Don't you feel guilty!!! Give the hurt(s) to the Lord each day. Yes, there will be tears or grieving and letting go. But, listen to me....grieving takes TIME! the Lord heals the hurting heart. Keep close to HIM in prayer and Bible reading each day. Focus on the LORD at all times. Your husband is away from the Lord's presence. He is the one who will have to answer to GOD for what he does with your marriage. I worked at my marriage for 22 years when my "ex" was demeaning, belittling, never held my hand in public or even wanted to stand next to me. He was an ex Head deacon. Who looked like the perfect Christian in front of people but behind the closed doors he was emotionally abusive and belittling. He has to face the Lord for Not working on my marriage. He refused to even try to work on the marriage and mocked the Pastors who tried to help our marriage.

Always read God's Word daily and pray like you've never prayed in your life! GOD is the healer of broken hearts! Read the Psalms and listen to David's heart reaching out to God!!!!
Praying for you.
Psalmsong

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Re: struggling with guilt over divorce -- joe, 13:20:32 08/23/01 Thu